Scare Posted July 18, 2007 Share Posted July 18, 2007 Hey everybody. I really need help. Im a person who is very shy and not very attractive to many women. But there is a lady i really really like and she likes me back. But she was telling me that in a man she wants him to look and dress mature. I know im not very mature looking even when i try to be. I am 6'0, have freckles and wear spectacles. My hair is long but im thinking getting it short will be better. But i don't understand what she says when she likes "mature clothing". Please help guys! Thank you!! Link to comment
barbielovesmac Posted July 18, 2007 Share Posted July 18, 2007 it's just my opinion but im not big on guys with long hair. i like it short. as far as mature dressing, how is it you dress?? Link to comment
Scare Posted July 18, 2007 Author Share Posted July 18, 2007 Well i usually dress with jeans, a stripped collered shirt and i wear a watch with nice shoes. But she tells me i dress like a teenager. Link to comment
barbielovesmac Posted July 18, 2007 Share Posted July 18, 2007 that doesn't sound so bad to me, maybe cause im just in my 20's. how old are you? well, by mature she may mean slacks? but i personally see nothing wrong with jeans and a collered shirt. i know you like her and all, but she has to be willing to accept you for who you are. she shouldn't try to change you ESPECIALLY when you aren't even dating. Link to comment
Scare Posted July 18, 2007 Author Share Posted July 18, 2007 im 15. But maybe slacks. Yeah that is true. But i'm not sure.. Link to comment
Scout Posted July 18, 2007 Share Posted July 18, 2007 Hey everybody. I really need help. Im a person who is very shy and not very attractive to many women. But there is a lady i really really like and she likes me back. But she was telling me that in a man she wants him to look and dress mature. I know im not very mature looking even when i try to be. I am 6'0, have freckles and wear spectacles. My hair is long but im thinking getting it short will be better. But i don't understand what she says when she likes "mature clothing". Please help guys! Thank you!! Why don't you ask her what she means, and to give you some specific examples? Or did she already? Link to comment
Scout Posted July 18, 2007 Share Posted July 18, 2007 But she tells me i dress like a teenager. Well, you are a teenager. Anyway, you referred to her as a "lady." Do you mind if I ask how old she is? Link to comment
barbielovesmac Posted July 18, 2007 Share Posted July 18, 2007 your 15. sweetie, you are a teenager. how old is she? Link to comment
Scare Posted July 18, 2007 Author Share Posted July 18, 2007 Actually im 16. I made a typo. But she is 17. Link to comment
barbielovesmac Posted July 18, 2007 Share Posted July 18, 2007 she's 17, you are 16. she is telling you to dress more mature. she tells you that you dress like a teenager, well sorry hunnie but he is. and there is nothing wrong with dressing like one. instead of trying to figure it out, why don't you ask her. Link to comment
Scout Posted July 18, 2007 Share Posted July 18, 2007 I wouldn't have guessed she's 17, based on you calling her a "lady," and her telling you that you dress like a teenager - when she's supposedly a teenager herself. Link to comment
Scare Posted July 18, 2007 Author Share Posted July 18, 2007 Alright. I will. Thank you for the help. Link to comment
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