Lone_Ranger Posted September 28, 2003 Share Posted September 28, 2003 i Copy This Straight from What I chat with her on MSN... I meet up with her the next day to talk abt us And she says da same things as in the chat also... no difference... My Fren treated u as my good fr n i'm not fully prepared to having a new bg rltship yet, I Am too Shock To Say ANything else.... Me also actually not prepared , but i like u, i like u but i think i don wants any relationship.... my heart say want, my brain say " don be stupid k?" so I donno ler... then my frens say i don need to be scared to go to another relationship alrady, and let's past be the past.... i actually just wanna found out more abt u as a fren first but i mean start to date to see how it goes not like... I don really wants u to be my gf now My fren u no need 2 care abt wt ur fr say..... if u dun want 2 start a new rlship, is ok... y u so obedient ME lah.... i try not to follow them lorz... MY motto now is actually "No WoMeN No Cry".... but sometime i just can't seems to control my feelings... it seems like i sld go back to my old ways lorz... But u just can't stop ur self from liking some1.... My Fren u know.....i'm not prepare 2 start a new rlship yet...... some more my family's things( Her DaD died 3 weeks ago), gave me a lot pressure n sch work also....... n i really shock when i receive ur 1st msg, i tot is a joking forwarded msg only.... Me not forwarded lorz... kk don wanna pressure u so much ... like i said, i also not ready for another relationship also.... Just wait and see how it goes... If u don really want anything i guess i just need to move on... spend everyday with my sec sch frens and don ever think abt BGR anymore... Actually if u asked me to wait, I'll wait.... i not that desperate to have any GF.... My Fren it, that not forwarded msg.... wah... Ur Poem is soo gd so i taught it is a forwarded msg... is my problem now.... the 1st thing is i never think on abt it b4 (unprepare) then now 2nd yr, very tough, feel like concentration on my studies & moreover i hvn't adjust my feeling yet as my father's death... i can't so selfish that to ask u to wait...... n whos know the future things, maybe few mth later, u no long hv crush wif me, right.... it may be happen... ME worry ler, i liked u from 1st day of sch when u still having that long hair of ur's and still do.... i think if u don wan it now, it also good for me cos i need to be happy and enjoy myself also after just broking up.... altough i am after gretel already, i still feeling hurt abt wanna go to another relationship, just that my feeling towards u is too stong for me not to say it out to u..... My Fren is better 2 relax n enjoy ur life after the broke up...... single life is better... 4 me, now.... anyway i still consider u as a gd fr lol....i never hv a thought 2 hv BGR now.... so is not ur problem , juz i'm not prepared now.... Any Ideas Where We Are Heading to? Is THis Just Some InfaMOus ReJecTiOn LineS? Sld I MoVe On oR WaIt And try To SpeNd MoRe TiMe WiTh HEr??? Link to comment
reynder Posted September 28, 2003 Share Posted September 28, 2003 IF you can be friends, be friends - but I say move on. I'm going through the same similar thing - with a woman who has been leading me on for a year now - and even when we met, she had a boyfriend but showed interest in me - now she is single (5 months) and i have heard it all - that she needs time, not ready, just wants to be friends for now, just wants to be single, doesn't want ot be with anybody. I firmly believe that if it's the right person - there is nothign that will stand in the way of two people being together. IT doesn't have to be all serious right fromt he start - but for some reason some women just beat around the bush. A different guy might coome along next week and bang, all of a sudden now she's ready to have a relationship. I've seen it happen before, and I can see it happening now to me (and to you). Be careful, buddy - it sounds like you're setting yourself up for somethign that will never happen. My advice (which I have to take myself) is to move on. Link to comment
Lone_Ranger Posted September 28, 2003 Author Share Posted September 28, 2003 I Will Move On Dude.... I in fact i don even wan any gf now... i am happy with the way i am... i think i sld be contented that she treat me the better than other guys.... I will give a try to any girl that come my way, provided i must like her also... I onli will re-consider abt her if she really likes me and tell me that she wants more than being frens... this kinda things u can't be pushy... i been in this situations many times... i failed in first 2 attempts where i kept persuing that person, then they can't treasure me until i'm gone.... the 3rd 1 i just keep my cool and let her chase me.... looks like reverse phycology is better for girls... but if they don go after u forget it.... at least u've tried and become much wiser... I won get emotional again abt a girl.... frankly after having many Gfs and being hurt so many times, it's harder to like/love some1 fully.... but u'll be much wiser.... As for now i just be frens with her.... and as far as i noe, there will never be best-frens between a girl and a guy.... just like if ur bf/gf say they have a very close fren from opp sex, if u think u wanna share ur bf/gf.... let them be much more closer and see what's happen.... THIS IS LIFE Link to comment
P-Frenchie Posted October 1, 2003 Share Posted October 1, 2003 If you come on a website like this asking for our help, make your problem clear. Typing shorthand is OK as long as you do it in moderation... but people can't understand a single word you say! Link to comment
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