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yo thanks. and yes it is my buddy because if you go look at my other post u'll see MY problem...lol...its all good though

Alright my friend just got dumped by this girl and he still has extremely strong feelings for her. She has said that she wants time and space from him. He has sent her flowers and has called her and talked to her about it but can't get anything out of her. Help my bud and get me a quick reply. Sorry there isnt much detail but I don't know the entire story so I couldnt get into detail. You can ask me stuff and I'll answer it as well as I can. Thanks.

Alright I'll give it a try then I'll hollar back at all and tell you how its going.

Alright well for one, he's her age (14) also. I don't think he'll goto a party with me to get drunk. Also he's a Preacher's Kid. I did notice at the tournament this weekend that he was checking out alot of other girls. See that was on a Saturday and on Sunday he didn't come to the tournament and that is when she rode home with me. I've asked her straight-up Question #1 before and she told me the "I just like you as a friend." story. I don't know I think I'm just going to take the #5 way b/c I don't want her all pissed at me for doing that other stuff. I don't mind waiting (and no this doesn't mean I'm masterbating) because I get to spend time with her anyways. #3 would be hard to do because we goto different schools. I'm at the West High School and there at North Middle. I'll try to get some "dirt" (LOL) on him though. She has softball practice this week and she said something about me picking her up one day. I asked last night about when she wanted me to and she said, "I dont know." Do you think I should just ask when her next practice is and then just instead of asking tell her that I'll pick her up and just get her to be sure it's alright and everything? That sounded sorta lame but I'm gonna go get her because I told her I would. It'll get us some personal time and also get even more trust out of her parents. Speaking of her parents, I know her father loves me to death. Him and I are real good friends and her mother is starting to talk to me more now. I guess if they trusted me to take her home after her tournament (even though I just followed them) they'll trust me to pick her up one day after her softball practice. Also, (sorry for all this jumbled up but I'm just typing as I think) when we got out at her house after taking her home from the tourny I walked up to her mom and was like, "Well we made it back alive," and she said, "Aww I trusted you enough with my baby girl to ride with you." Anyways just tell me what you think GUYS and GIRLS. Thanks.

Alright there is this girl that I really like (I've told her twice now) but she tells me that she just likes me as a friend. Now she does have a b/f and I'm single. She's 14 and I'm 16. Alright now down to the main stuff. Yes she told me she just likes me as a friend. She really used to like me around 6 months and I liked her also but we didn't know the other like other. The way she acts, the way we look at each other in the eyes when we talk and I looked at some of the body language stuff and it says yes, as in the dilated eyes and the feet position. We went to the movies with my cousin and her b/f and she sat beside me and every little bit she would rub her foot (she had her legs crossed) up against me around 3-4 times then stop. She did this like 3 times. Then we went out and were waiting in the car and she started laying up against me but it only lasted around half a minute or so before she moved. This past weekend I went to her AAU Basketball Tournament and she would look up at me every once in a while when she was sitting on the bench. Then on the way home she got my cousin to sit in the back so she could sit up in the front while I drove. She told my cousin that, "She didn't get to ride up in the front much." Please tell me what yall think? Is she scared to tell me she likes me? Please can a get a few guys and girls to answer. At least 1 guy and 1 girl, please!?!? Thanks so much for your help in my problem a couple weeks ago. eNotAlone has really helped me out, dont let me down this time!!!

Well last night after her making more fun of me I told myself I wasn't going to take it anymore and broke up with her. I'm single now and my liking for Jane is the highest ever now! PLEASE HOOK ME UP WITH SOME ADVICE!

Well last night I had planned just to goto the Ballgame with Jane and myself but my cousin invited my girlfriend to come also. Well I really wasn't saying much to her on the way to the game because I was a little sick on my stomach. When we got to the game we all found a seat, Jane to my right my girlfriend to my left. Well my girlfriend doesn't know I like her or anything (obviously) so she didn't see a problem with me sitting next to her. Well guess who in the world she brought up the very second we sat down...yep...that a-hole from the party she was laying all over. And I straight up told her I didnt want to her about him and I didnt't care if she talked to him but I dont want to know about it. It really pissed me off so I ignored her for pretty much the rest of the game. She wasn't talking to me anyways and the only time she would talk would be to turn around and talk crap about me (I heard her saying it) to her friends sitting above her. Me and Jane were sitting there just talking about the game and other stuff. Well one of my other friends, Brandon, this boy she used to date came to the game and was sitting 2 rows up behind her and I was kidding her about him. Well one of the times I said something she turned and looked at me and said, "Matt, I don't like Brandon!" In a tone that, to me, seemed like she was say (or maybe I wanting her to say), "I dont like Brandon but I do like someone." Then after that she goes, "I like my boyfriend." HEH well that sorry shot me through the heart a little but thats okay. We were both talking about our boyfriend/girlfriend. And if you're wondering no, I wasnt talking crap to Jane about my girlfriend. The only thing I would tell her was, "There she goes, talking crap about me again," and Jane would say, "Aww it'll be alright Matt." But later that night me and my girlfriend really got into it on AIM. I told her how I felt about her talking about this guy or some other guy everytime we speak. She got all pissed off and I didn't talk to her at school any today. I left early also because I was tired of everyone hassling me about it. Any comments on what you think Jane's feelings are now with the way she was acting? I looked for some of the signs and stuff and her eyes were dilolated and she was always looking me in the eyes when she would talk.

Alright, I told my cousin the whole story and she told me a few more things about Jane. One is that she has never broke up with a guy before (so it might be a while before they break up). The other is that this other sophmore had talked to her but her mom wouldn't let her date a sophmore because of the age difference. Well since Jane and my cousin both play AAU Basketball together they're good friends and Jane and her parent's are over at my cousin's alot. Her parents (especially her dad) like me alot. Do you think that since they know me so well that they wouldn't have a problem with her dating me? Also my birthday is coming up this weekend and I would really like her to come but I don't know how to go around and ask her. I dont see her at school any but I do talk to her on AIM sometimes...Any suggestions...Thanks. -Matt

could a female please give me some advice on what I should do please...thanks.

alright thanks for the info. Should I continue just talking to Jane for the time being on AIM or anything like that or just not say anything until the opertunity arrises? I guessing that I should continue to talk to her but I dunno...

Okay this is sorta long but I really need some advice... This takes place over 5 days but I'll try compact it. Day One: We're outta school (snow) on thursday and I'm over at my friends house. Well I get a call from my girlfriend asking to talk to my friend. I ask her why and she says that she wants to tell him what I am getting for Valentine's Day. So I give the phone to him expecting to this convo. to take only 1-2 min but they end up talking for around 30-45 min. After asking my friend to give me the phone back around 5 times I get the phone back and get to talk to her. Later that night we goto her house and the whole time my friend is there she doesn't pay barely any attention to me. (Note: She used to like my friend before we started dating.) Day Three (Nothing on Day 2): It's Valentine's Day and we are having a V-day get together for me and g/f and my cousin and her b/f and a cover-story for my cousin's surprise Birthday Party. Well at the party she starts laying all over this other boy that she knows I hate. Then she asks the girl that brougth the guy if she wants to sit next to him and the girl says no so she goes, "Well I guess I'll steal him from ya!" (Here is where the other question comes in.) Well while I was there, this other girl (Lets call her Jane) I really liked a while back was there. She is the sweetest friend I've ever had and she could tell that I was upset about the whole situation with my g/f and that other boy. Well she was sitting in the chair next to me and asked me what was wrong and I told her I would tell her later. We'll I went upstairs later to sign my g/f's V-Day Card and was going to write it in private so I go in my cousins room and shut the door. As I start to write Jane comes into the room and shuts the door behind her and walks over to the bed and sits down and asks me what was wrong. I told her the whole story about what happened earlier with her flirting and what happened on day one. She seemed concerned about it. Later that night we were watching a movie and I noticed her looking over at me a few times (I was looking over at her as well.) Day Five (No Day 4): Im talking to Jane on AIM and we were just chatting and she brings up how she liked me a while back when I liked her (I didnt know she liked me then also). I told her that I like her then also and that being around her at the party brought back up some of those feelings I had for her. She then brought up how I had a g/f and that she was really nice. I told her that I felt guilty for my feelings (truth) but I couldnt help them. She then says she has been the same way before. I told her she should come over to my cousin's more often and she goes, "Well I'm spending alot of my time with my b/f." _____________________________________________________________ Okay I was thinking that she liked me now but then again she is talking about spending time with her boyfriend. Can someone tell me what they think she thinks and could someone give me some advise about my girlfriend? Im really sorry for such a long post but all I said needed to be said. Thanks SO much! Oh and my age is 16 my g/f age is 15 and "Jane's" age is 14.