Over the summer my wife of 13 years and I had some problems. Even though I have no proof, I pretty certain that she had an affair. Things between us are much better but I have many doubts. I never confronted her with any evidence but all the warning signs were there. I offered her a way out, to admit it, but she wouldn't and that is the way I'm sure she would be.
She is now pregnant with twins and I'm not 100% certain that they are mine. We only had sex once, (I know that is all it takes) in several months. The timing is right, but the circumstances weren't real good. I shouldn't be complaining, but she still has a relationship with a "friend" and he lives in another state. They talk almost daily, e-mail, cell phone. She has never hid the friendship but was always persistent that it was just friends. I have met him several times and he is a pretty good guy. Maybe the timeing of this friendship and our problems in our relationship happened at a bad time.
Should I confront her with my suspicions, ask her to break off her frindship, or just wait and see and possibly have a DNA test on the children when they arrive. BTW we already have two other children so I really don't want to kick her to the curb, I actually do love her and my children.
