HALE85
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Would have been about 3 months no contact for me by now, if only i didn't break it only to find out she never loved me and is now with someone else, trust me that will set you way back. so im currently day 3 NC, woopty fooking doo.
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I broke NC, had to to get something back that belonged to my dad. Just text asking if i could get it back as they will be needing it, so far no reply.
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28 Days Later, well i have gone a full 4 weeks NC now, i do feel better now than i did, and i don't have a problem doing other things, i still prefer to be on my own at the moment, but i don't go out with some close friends, i still miss her and want her back, but she hasn't contacted me at all. so i guess il just keep on this NC road for the meantime.
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DAY 23 - started to accept she aint coming back, just been cracking on with other things keeping my mind busy.
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DAY 15, Im getting there.
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DAY 11, Finding it a bit easier, just try not to think about her, i have moments when i get lost in thought but that only ends in sadness, so i avoid those roads from now on.
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DAY 10 NC, Double Figures Il stop counting soon,
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DAY 9 NC, nearly into double figures
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DAY 8 NC, Not much to say apart from this sucks.
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1 Week NC, Completed, Feeling better as the days go by, seen her car yesterday at the garage, had the strong urge to pull into the garage, but i decided not too, she didn't see me. Oh well now for week 2 NC.
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DAY 6 NC I miss her, reality is setting in though that she probably wont come back to me in the future. oh well not really much i can do about it.
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Yeah i have been thinking that.
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DAY 5 NC Just another day. find it hard to focus on other things but i'm guessing this feeling will gradually fade away.
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Thanks for all your advice and input, really helped me think about what i should do. so i wont contact her at all until she contacts me, could be months or years but i guess that is up to her. Thanks again
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May 2nd, hers is end of may, sooooo dunno if i would contact her on her birthday if she didn't on mine, ha-ha this is just a massive minefield. keep thinking i would contact her in 4 weeks ish, then i think, no i shouldn't, and so on, as i know she knows im not going to contact her until im ready, does that mean she wont contact me at all.
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Ok i know what i have to do. just disappear for a while, wont be easy, its my birthday early may so maybe i might get a text then, and could see what happens, but if not i will just keep on doing nothing. just hurts a lot as Ive done nothing wrong, i know she needs to sort things out, i just hope she still wants to be with me when she does that. just wish i could fast forward.
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Thanks, reading that gives me hope, maybe i shouldn't have that, but i should just put it to the back of my mind for now, and when im least expecting it something may come of it. i know im doing the right thing for her, giving her space, just hurts a lot. and yes if i hear from her, i will post on here first before i replied, not going to mess this up by making stupid mistakes, made 0 mistakes so ar so i plan on keeping it that way, anyway nearly onto day 4 NC, How are things with your situation going 'let him go'?
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DAY 3 , Don't like this, it sucks, Have the urge to call her mother and see if i can get some inside information, but i know that wont make me feel any better, i plan on leaving it a month or 2 and then reconnecting, that's if she hasn't contacted me first, she said she needed to time to get over her marriage failing due to her violent, and i understand that, hopefully in 2 months she will be clear about what she wants and i hope that's me. but if its not i dont see how i can be friends with her after that. done the right thing so far, no clingy texts or harassing phone calls, pretty much doing all i can right now. just want her back with me.
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Thanks 'Let Him Go' Wise words, i will continue this NC, i want her back, but as time guys by i guess i will accept that its not going to happen, so in the end, it will be like, if she does come back great, and if she doesn't come back, well then thats fine too, so yes win win, in the long run.
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Thanks for the advice, just so you know, i am a man, its my (Female) ex's daughter
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Day 2 of No Contact, My best friends Girlfriend Left him yesterday by text, and turned up at his work with all his stuff in bin bags, He's not too happy at the moment,i know how he feels, was exactly 1 week before i got dumped, but at least my ex done it face to face and told me what was really going on, so at least i have closure from it. Any way one thing i was thinking about is that next month its her Daughters 1st birthday, i love that baby and didn't know if it was aceptable of NC rules to post her a birthday present, i wouldn't add a note or anything, just a gift and a card for the baby, nothing too extreme, What do you lot think about that. do you think it will come accross as a good or bad idea?
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DAY 1 NC Arranged to see her on Saturday, but Ive cancelled, and said its not going to make me feel any better and that i need to concentrate on moving on, She agreed and said she didn't want to say that to me as she didn't want me to think she was trying to push me away, So NC starts now
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Just ruined everything, all got to much for me at work, i was feeling physically sick, i asked the boss if i could leave, he said no, i kind of lost it a bit, and walked out, stupid i know, everything just got too much for me, the thought of never being with her again, and missing out on seeing the baby walk properly and start talking, i really was ready to raise that child as my own, but now ive lost everything. now think i am moving upto london to live with my brother and have a fresh start, in 1 week i went from having everything i ever wanted to now having nothing, feel pretty * * * * and stupid right now. also broke no contact tonight, said she misses me , but she needs to be on her own, and that she is sorry for everything, said it was the hardest thing she has had to do, but she has to do it for herself, i did nothing wrong i know that. jsut hurts to lose someone for doing nothing wrong, i blame her violent ex husband for making her unhappy, just wish i had the chances he had.
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Day 3, found it really hard last night, couldn't sleep, and i have to go work soon which sucks, really not in the mood. have a feeling i iwll break NC tonight, nothing to extreme, jsut see how her and the baby are, miss them both, losing 2 people not 1
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Day 2 for me, finding it hard, think ive spent the last 2 days looking around at other peoples posts looking for answers, but anyway feeling ok at the minute, working tomorrow so i wont be able to contact her even if i wanted too as i deleted her number.