HALE85
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Would have been about 3 months no contact for me by now, if only i didn't break it only to find out she never loved me and is now with someone else, trust me that will set you way back. so im currently day 3 NC, woopty fooking doo.
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I broke NC, had to to get something back that belonged to my dad. Just text asking if i could get it back as they will be needing it, so far no reply.
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28 Days Later, well i have gone a full 4 weeks NC now, i do feel better now than i did, and i don't have a problem doing other things, i still prefer to be on my own at the moment, but i don't go out with some close friends, i still miss her and want her back, but she hasn't contacted me at all. so i guess il just keep on this NC road for the meantime.
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DAY 23 - started to accept she aint coming back, just been cracking on with other things keeping my mind busy.
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DAY 15, Im getting there.
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DAY 11, Finding it a bit easier, just try not to think about her, i have moments when i get lost in thought but that only ends in sadness, so i avoid those roads from now on.
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DAY 10 NC, Double Figures Il stop counting soon,
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DAY 9 NC, nearly into double figures
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DAY 8 NC, Not much to say apart from this sucks.
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1 Week NC, Completed, Feeling better as the days go by, seen her car yesterday at the garage, had the strong urge to pull into the garage, but i decided not too, she didn't see me. Oh well now for week 2 NC.
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DAY 6 NC I miss her, reality is setting in though that she probably wont come back to me in the future. oh well not really much i can do about it.
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Yeah i have been thinking that.
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DAY 5 NC Just another day. find it hard to focus on other things but i'm guessing this feeling will gradually fade away.
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Thanks for all your advice and input, really helped me think about what i should do. so i wont contact her at all until she contacts me, could be months or years but i guess that is up to her. Thanks again
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May 2nd, hers is end of may, sooooo dunno if i would contact her on her birthday if she didn't on mine, ha-ha this is just a massive minefield. keep thinking i would contact her in 4 weeks ish, then i think, no i shouldn't, and so on, as i know she knows im not going to contact her until im ready, does that mean she wont contact me at all.