ultimate_you

thanx guys and yeah this is the same guy that used to force me but he acts different now so i dont even know wat 2 think!

but thanx all the same!

Thanx j, and ur probably right. i'll feel bad 4 not letting him have anotha chance but i dont no how i'll get over him. but thanx 4 ur advice!!!

luv ultimate_you

thanx j, i would but i dont no if he deserves anotha chance or not, and m i stupid 4 goin back with him after he hurt me so much??? i dont have a clue wat im thinking but i think i might like bf's that hurt me coz i have a history with the heartbreaking guy's! but wat im askin is should i just tell him to back off or give him anotha chance?

hi every1,

most of u have probably read my post bout my bf that always hurt me and i broke up woth him, but he said he was always drunk and now he's not. could he be lying coz i had sex with him a couple of nights ago wen i was a little bit drunk but now i think bout it he could go back to forcing me into having sex! wat should i do?? is he lying?? please help!

thanx 4 reading!

love ultimate_you

umm .... it does take time to get over him/ her but every bodys different. so b patient and after a while u should get over her!!!! it took me a whole yr and a 1/2 2 get over my 1st bf so who knows how long it'll take 4 u!?

luv ultimate_you

ohh u poor thing (sorry for posting so late) it does sound like she's gone and got herself a bf just so she wont b lonley or coz she's affraid that u would have dont the same thing to her and she probably didnt wanto get hurt like that!? hope i helped!!!!

luv ultimate_you

well my mom's like that but she doesnt even call me!!! so i guher sons lucky that he wants to c him!!!! i wouldnt call him a drop dead dad coz he might b making an effort, but thn again y cant he catch a cab???

sounds a lil bit weird 2 me!

luv ultimate_you but good luck ne wayz

well me and my best friend went to the movies and we went to sit down in our usual spot, but it was taken by this guy and my best friend's just like go 2 the otha side of the room NOW and dont make a scene and she was behind me as we were going accross the room and we were the only ppl in the cinimas besides the dude sitting in our seats! as we were walking i looked back to c who the heck it was and it was her ex bf!!! and i laughed and as i turned around! i tripped over my bag and screamed as loud as i could and of course he looked over and asked if i was okay and he used to b one of my friends aswell as her bf!!!! and he looked and saw who it really was and he sat down and didnt say ne thing to us and i got so embarrest!! my best friend was so pissed off @ me!!!

just talk to her like ur best friends or friends!? she sound alot like me wen i was like a bit younger my bf was loud and i was shy so weneva i caught him looking at me i'd act casual and walk off and hide!!! she does it coz she's probably embarresed that ur lookin at her!? hope i helped!!!!

lvu ultimate_you

hey maybe he's embarresed coz he's got girls perving on him when his with his gf. it seems like he loves u and doesnt know what to do wen otha girls look @ him!? well bye

luv ultimate_you

it sound like she's a very busy girl and maybe she was busy all of the times u asked her out! if u ask me try it out but if she says ne thing like u should just b friends then leave it like that!? maybe but i donno! good luck!!

thanx guys 4 all of ur advice and i eventually got out yesterday! but i wouldnt have if i didnt talk 2 some body so thanx!!

luv ultimate you

k guys thanx 4 all of ur advice and stuff and if i leave him i'll post here 2morrow! and the guy is 18 , im 17

luv ultimate_you

hey no problem and i hope u guys work it out!! bye!!

okay just ask her out ur friends obviousley dont care about urs/hers feelings! but i wouldnt know , only u know what do do from here!!!

*good luck*

my guess is they were jelouse of you! but im not sure y ne one would purposley try and break u up wit ur gf! so have u decided wat ur gonna do????

k was she the one who played ya??? if yes b carefull ( she might b a heart breaker) if no- u should just give it a try if it starts to fail thn say u'd rather b friends!

she seems like a really nice girl!!! and u must love her!! wish u both the best!!!

luv ultimate_you

it sounds like she still loves you. umm but i think u have a fear of loosing her again right??? but my advice is to give her a notha chance . Whats the worst that could happen!?

good luck luv ultimate_you

k heres the answers..

First question,

Has he ever hit or hurt you in any other way? he's neva hit me, yet and dont wanto find out if he is the kinda guy that'd do that!

Second,

Does he ever grab you or try to restrain you in any way while you are fighting about something?

he's grabed me when i told him i was going to leave him , and he didnt let go till i promised i'd stay with him. and he holds me down wen we're having sex.

Third,

Is he the type of guy that goes mental/bezerk at the littlest things in life?

all of the time, like if i go out with friends for a few hours he'll start screaming at me.

thanx 4 all of ur advice, if u could help more that would b great!!!! i'll probably leave of on sunday if i can!

ive tried talking 2 him but he says if i tell ne 1 he'll kill me! and im 2 scared im thinking of running away! i have a chance on sunday so should i??? please help, i dont want 2 hurt his feelings but i dont wanna keep getting hurt just 4 him.

well im 17 and ive just started having sex with my boyfriend but 4 some reason weneva i ask him to pull out or stop he'll keep going pushing harder and faster and it really hurts!! i ignored it for a few weeks but last night he went in so hard that i couldnt take it and i blacked out. ilove him so much but is this abuse and should i break up with him??? please help , i can neva say no 2 him coz im not strong enough, and i dont wanna hurt his feelings! thanx 4 reading and please tell me wat i should do!?