BlackBirdy
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It's been more than 30 days for me, and I'm over it. Good luck guys!
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Day 25 I really don't miss him and don't want him. There are so many guys out there who'd be just great for me. I can't wait to meet them!
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Day 18 Same ol', same ol'. Went out on a date today which was pleasant but I don't feel anything there. Nice guy though. It felt fine going back out there. I didn't really feel like talking about exes though when he brought the subject up so I talked about the ones before this recent one. Also, a phone call from another guy wanting to meet up. This is a guy from the dating website. LOL. Yes I am still doing the internet dating thing because it's all been pretty good and positive as an experience so far... I mean, except for the fact that I met my current ex off that site and he broke my heart! LOL. I'll be away on a trip for 8 days though, and will have no internet access.. so I won't be posting my progress here but I WILL be making progress GOOD LUCK everyone!
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Day 18 He totally didn't deserve me. And you know what? I'm glad I;m not STUCK with him! Settling for something that's not good enough for me. WHy do we always 'settle'? Or why do I always settle? I am going to meet someone way more fabulous and interesting, someone that really deserves me.
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I've tried to PM you but it says you're not allowed to receive PMs? I think it's cuz you're still very new on the site / too few posts?
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Day 17 I'm doing fine. I just still feel angry at how well I treated him, and how I ignored some signs early on that he was quick to jump in and out of relationships... so the anger is not really at him but myself. I don't want him and in fact I am excited about meeting someone new. I feel ready this time.
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Good luck. Stay strong.
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Sure, drop me a line!
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Day 16 I don't want him back. Wow. All traces of my feelings of wanting him back have officially melted away. I think I had my final catharsis tonight when I let it all out to a friend of mine. It was a good session with drinks and laughs, it was more light-hearted and I didn't talk about it for long at all. It was like I just needed to say a bit more about it to someone else and that got rid of those pesky feelings. And have an outsider's opinion on it to knock sense into me and drive the point home that he. is. not. worth. it. and it's HIS loss. Boom boom pow, I got my swagger back Onwards and upwards!!
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Day 15. Decided not to write him an email or contact him. Staying with the challenge. Why not.
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Just don't respond, or if you do, just say "well if that's what you want to think that's up to you" then just go silent, no more texting. IGNORE.
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He commented on something I posted on Facebook, and so I clicked on his profile... ... and I saw that he's now in a relationship. Less than a month after he dumped me. Uh... okay. Now it makes me wonder a LOT of things about... stuff. Well. I guess that's it. I am done with this challenge because I don't want him back but I want to write him an email to give him a piece of my mind!
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Day 14 Thinking more and more that he's full of BS and that it's seriously HIS LOSS. Yet.... I miss him. UGH!
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Day 13 I checked out his FB page because I was talking to a friend about him and wanted to show her what he looked like, LOL. aaaaannnndddd, I didn't feel bad AT ALL. I didn't feel anything much. Seeing his photos and his minimal updates (he's always so busy), I didn't feel sad, or anything. I just felt, oh, yeah, that's him. I DO miss him but I'm glad it didn't make me feel like crap to see his face after not having looked at his FB/photos for over 3 weeks. I guess I'm doing well. I think I'm at the anger stage right now where I feel like some of the stuff/reasons he gave me for the breakup were BS, and I keep thinking he's the idiot and it's his loss and things like that. Good for me. I'm on the road to recovery, well and truly. heh. Good luck everyone! And kenny, exercising definitely DOES help
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Day 12 I met up with an old friend today and we talked about all the stuff we've been thru since we last met. She helped me see the situation with more clarity. I am an awesome person, kind, generous, affectionate, genuine, honest, smart, funny, good-looking. I'm the best thing that happened to him and if he can't see that, and can't appreciate it and want to hold on to something good when it came his way... that's HIS LOSS. He's an idiot for letting me go and it's really too bad for him. I miss him and what we had but no longer am I wondering how it will be to be with him now, because... well, I can do so much better. I have so much love in me to give. I have so much to say and do with myself, I really don't have time for people who can't see what an awesome person I am. Your loss Mr Nice Guy.
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Day 11. Talked about him a LOT with mum today. Ugh horrible, why can't I just shut up about him! I. MISS. HIM.
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Just say no.
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Day 10. I'm away for a week visiting my parents, which helps... and when I get back I'll be going on a trip with my friend. But AFTER all that, I'll have lots of time to sit and stew. Or hopefully I'll be over it by then. Still... I DO want to be able to see him, sit and have a conversation and NOT feel like I desperately want him back... I hope...
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It's painful, but remember pain can heal. Keep going, Lance. You can do it. It gets easier and easier as the days go on, trust me. Good luck!
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Day 9. I'm doing well. Even interested in meeting other guys. It's been 2.5 weeks since the breakup. I haven't seen him in 3 weeks. So... I suppose it's normal to be this far along in the healing process. Inasmuch as I'd like to heal fast I don't want to rush it either. Just taking each day as it comes. If I feel great today and crap tomorrow, it's all part of the process. Right? Stay strong people. And good luck.
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Day 8. Been feeling crappy for the last 2 days. Got a little teary-eyed today, but I think it's also due to a lot of stress in other areas of my life (friends, work/school, etc).
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Day 7 of NC. Ho hum. Well... I still miss him.
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*HUG* Now you can move on.
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Day 5. He is becoming a distant memory.
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Day 3. Yeah. Getting over it. Slowly.