Lionelle

DOH! *curse curse curse* I called him up last night and I jus got home from school (we didnt look at each other at all today....but I DID catch him looking for me once)...here's how it went, EXACTLY. Me: *dial dial* (hehehe, yay! I got the courage to CALL him! Actually, I just accidentally pressed the last number in his phone number. There's no turning back now!) His Momma: Hello? Me: (oh my gosh) Hi, may I speak to Grant? His Momma: Sure, one moment please. Me: (omg! Just a few more seconds until the verdict. I'm gonna tell him what I wrote down to say: --Hey, Grant, this is Lily from school, do you remember me? yeah, I called you to ask what I tried to ask you at school. I know I have a rep of being a flake, but I think you're really cool and it looks like you're worth getting to know, so Iwant a chance to get to know you better. Maybe we could exchange AIM screen names or do something sometime?--) His Momma: Grant? Telephone! (walking upstairs) Me: (omg....*sweatdrop*) Grant: ....Hello? Me: Um, hi, this is Lily from school, do you remember me? Grant: *2 second silence* Yeah, but I have to go now, bye. *clickers* Me: ............................... *curse curse curse* I'm not sad...I'm just mad that I messed up and most people dun give me a chance. Let's all sing the "I'm Okay" song!

LOL! Jack: But why is the rum gone?! -------------------------------- Herher, it took me a while to get courage to show my quirks...it mainly was at camps and stuff where there was no social hiearchy like in school. I had a chance to be myself, and people liked me for it! Now, in our "moment of silence" every day, I sit on my desk, do the cross-legged thing, and pretend to meditate. Lol, I love testing people's reactions! Oh, and I SO have an over-reactive imagination too! Hehehe, I'm one of the quirky hyper ones. I've actually heard that people around my school tell each other that I'm weird and annoying...I find that so funny. ^.^

Act like you're cool with yourself and you don't care what people around you think...guys love original and odd girls. Wave at him and say hi, make a joke, making a guy laugh is GREAT. Hey, I absolutely LOVE Pirates of the Caribbean! Hehe, can you check out my post in Asking for a Date: Shy guy, shy gal.... Hehehe, Lionelle

I think you should tell her exactly what you said there. If she is worth your time, she won't lie to you. It IS tough getting over someone you love who doesn't deserve you, but if she is really a liar, you need to put her out of your life.

I'm 14, he's 14...we're both mature for our ages. We both have mental years on our peers, and he's shy, and I'm really outgoing and loud and funny, but not popular at all (i dun care tho) and I have a bad rep for being weird. We're both shy around each other....I mean, we always sort of look at each other in the halls and stuff...at least I kno hes been pullin eye-contacts with me for about a week. He always turns up! Today, though, I was told to just go up to him and ask him if he would consider going out with me if he got to know me a little better, and I tried...but all I managed to get out was "Hey, Grant---(he looks at me and turns the other way and starts to walk) Never mind, never mind..." Now he probably thinks I'm a loser. He's the cousin of the two most "popular" and snooty people in the school, and he's shy and nice...but he's the type that doesn't talk unless he knows the person well. What does he probably think of me and how can I handle this, because I really like him!