Baldo25

I know how u feel right now buddy co'z that's whats happening to me now my gf for 11 yrs broke up with me 3 months ago and she's with another guy right now..hard to accept and I'm willing to accept her again if given the chance and forget everything...I wanted to move on but she's in my head every hour...yup up to now and I'm hating myself for that but why the hell buddy they are the one who dumped us we did tried to save the relationship but still the door is locked for us the question is WHY? after all that we've been through with our GF's still they don't care.... Put it this way buddy...put yourself on their shoe...what r u gonna do? maybe they're happy now with their guys it's their descision anyhow and I'm thinking if they're happy we should be happy for them eventhough it hurt us so much....but don't let this situation affect you take advantage of it exhaust yourself with study and be better person make it sure that they will see you getting better and let them realize that the big mistake in their life was when they dumped us...I know it's hard but I guess for us thats the attitude we need beside u'r young unlike me buddy I just turned 30 and it happened when I taugth we're going to settle down... I would like to hear from you again and at time like this we need somebody to talk(chat with) otherwise it's gonna drive us crazy.. God Bless Brother

Infaith and Gilgamesh.....thanks for all your advice it's really a relief for me...I guess like everybody's saying I should be brave and have to move on even though it's hard... God Bless You guys...

thanks SwingFox...... Goodluck on you too...hey your logo or image remind me of that guy....that german guy

thanks swingfox for your advice but just to let you know what happened.... She's my college sweetheart and sinced then we been together we are both from Philippines I'm now living here in Los Angeles and last 2000 she said she wanted to work in Germany and she said the only way for her to work there is to have valid papers(working papers) and the fastest way for her is to have a fix marriage and she said that I have to trust her bec. we been together then for 7 years and we have a solid foundation and that she love me that much that she can't do anything to hurt me...to make the story short I let her do it..they did not live together and we talked every night....until last feb she became cold to me only to find out last june that she fell in love with the guy whom she had a fix marriage .....can't continue this ...I felt so betrayed and I hate her I wanted to move on but it keeps coming back to me I'm so affected even my work I felt I'm so stupid for being so understanding to her..

My girlfriend for 11 yrs just broke up with me..this was our first conflict and I guess it's also the last sinced she dumped me already. How can she left me I've been faithful to her and gave her everything but in the end she said she prefer a guy with challenge....thats what made me hate myself I think being good and being faithful is such a bad thing...i need help it's really driving me crazy..