hoping for happy ending

hi, i'm 16 and have been in the church all my life, and i believe what your asking is a very common question throughout students today and that is, how good do i have to be to go to heaven. the first thing we have to do is clarify your scriptures, the point of the luke warm one is to show you that God doesn't want us to be half way, either go all out or don't go. on to your verse about he who believes, this is completely true but not to be taken advantage of, part of believing is giving your life, through your actions and thoughts, completely to him. and this matter of you considering sex is completely against biblical standards, premarital sex is condoned NO WHERE in the bible. but God is a forgiving God, so when we do make our mistakes he's there to forgive us, but only if we're willing to turn our lives around, he's also just, you need to make a decision, what do you want, to give good you life, or to keep it for yourself, hope it helps Ryan

Hi, My name is Ryan and i recently suffered a break up. I had been seeing this girl for about a month, and though may sound corney, i had my first french kiss with her. She and i were really into eachother, we had so much in common, i wanted to move the relationship deeper, and she said she didn't want a serious relationship because she thought it was pointless, she is going to be a senior, which is really ironic, because when we started the relationship she wanted serious, and i didn't. Anyway, i told her i would wait for her, and everything was going great. Then she went on a campout with some of her friends and apparently had abit to much fun and made out with another guy. Then she didn't tell me about it, when i found out i was pretty upset, and according to her became unpleasent to be around. A few days later we went to see a movie, and while there, about half way through, i decided within myself it didn't matter to me and i held her hand. when i got home however, i began thinking and sent her an email telling her to break it off, or go further, bad idea, she broke things off with me the next night on messenger after i told her how crazy i was about her. I need help, i want to be with her so much, please help me atleast restore what we had, Thanks Ryan