JoeII

you know- the problem with this is that if you dont consider the male just as important as the female then you are saying that procreation is the decision of the woman and not of the man. then- you imply by implacation that the male is just a tool in order to procreate. this type of sexism has switched gender acceptance over the years but it still remains true that what is done by will with the concent of anothers body is done with intent and thereforeeee all derteminates of that choice are to be known equally by both parties. if not then you suggest i as a person whod engage in a sex act, has limited responsiblities that do not surpass the satisfaction of my partner under the covers. you can do whatr you wish with your body- but i have a right to know when my lifeforce has inhibited such creation. denying me this is inhumane. joe

ive got a problem and i need some of yer help. ive always been shy- all my life- but whe it came to public situations i always put on this other face- something of a classclown- now that ive graduated- just a nut- anyway- ive been thinking lots and i keep seeing myself saying goofy things to express my deepest feelings- kinda like a mask to protect myself i guess. the people i am closest to have no idea of who i really am- there is one girl im crazy about- and my closes frineds i just wanna tell i love em- but i dont know what will happen?? i mean this girl cristi is so sweet- she knows i am nuts over her- and i may have implied it too much- but i wanna say it seriously once. its at a point where i dont even know if once more will be one more too many. with my friends i dont know if it will change anything at all. i love them all the same- but this girl is more of an issue (wow- i bet you didnt see that coming!haha). i dont wanna lose her but as a friend i cannot be there the same as i could if she knew how i felt and would work with me. i know its her choice- but it hurt sot think of her with siome nut or something alll because i never was honest about my feelings. i dunno? i hope you get what i mean. i want people to be happy- but i wanna be happy too? i dont know if i should say anything? ?? Joe

the same thing used to happen to me all the time- then i did the worst thing that you could ever do in that situation. i made stupid jokes- made the girl laugh- but here is the downside- there is no respect- you think that it is the best thing to do in that kinda situation- but its not- i dont know what i can tell you- but i can tell you dont so that. believe me it is not a good idea. j