I spent my entire life to date "not looking", and where has it got me? I'm a 24 year old virgin who completely fails with women. I am not unattractive, I am not devoid of goals, I am not stupid and I am not overweight. Now that I am "looking", it is opening my eyes to the many changes I need to make to my life. Obviously I can't turn back time, but I can throw out a warning to others not to sit back and expect it to happen.