foreverurz23

i think that its time to speak up and really see whats going on here. i really think that from the sound of it, he does like you. maybe he is afraid to really speak up or maybe he has been hurt before or he just doesnt see anything in dating before driving if you guys arnt there yet! who knows, alot of guys have diffrent sees on everything, thats just what makes us girls love em so much! lol

i want to thank you all of your reasurance, you dont know how scared i really was about this mislead. i am so not educated on this subject, has anyone ever have this happened?

you should slip her something amazing like a rose or something and tell her that you think that she is amazing, leave out words like hot and sexy, girls just think those kind of things are cheap when you first start but if you do get a relationship going with her and your luck starts, you maybe able to use them.

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manda

hi, you could try sitting him down with his father also and give him ideas of what he has become in your eyes, such as your mother and then reveiw all the bad memorys and things that could happen to him someday and just try to become his friend with out him trying to take advatage of you.

i hope my words help.

hope the situation becomes better.

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manda

i have been in your shoes before. for this kind of situation i am only 15 also. i separated both the guys in my thoughts and thought of the best things about each one and then i thought about the bad ones also. the one that attracts your attention more and makes you feel more worthy of your self and looks at things more through your eyes may be the one. think about it.

hope this helps.

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manda

i dont know for sure, but i have been having weird thoughts about something. my boyfriend and i have gone one step furthure in our relaitonship and this has to do with touching each other below the belt with just hands. this is the farthest that i have ever gone with a guy. i got scared about the second time that i started to do this and when i made him climax i got it on my hands and forgot to wash my hands after word ( this may sound sick but i had other things on my mind).

after he left, this had turned me on so much that i sorta touched my self down there, i was wondering if there could be any possibility that this could get me pregnet, all i need is reasurance.

thank you

manda

like the first person that posted a reply said that it isnt selfish at all. he just needs to find him self doing whats wrong and notice what it is really doing to his life and what it has done to you. maybe soon enough he will also relize what a wonderful girl he lost and what he had. you never did anything wrong, you were just your self and unless you gave him the drugs, you did nothing wrong at all, you cant control his actions. hope this puts just a lil more confidence on your shoulders for all your troubles.

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as long as you know that you truly love him, a relationship doesnt all have to be based up on a thing of physical touch. as long as there is a thing of trust and respect i think this thing that you are deeling with will work.

i had a relationship for a month and a half, i was with a guy in indiana and i was in wisconsin, i only got to talk to him about 2 nights every week and i never really got to see him that much. the reason that we broke up wasnt because of the long distance, it was becuase he was tempted for another girl. with all the brake ups and things with relationships today you gotta know if you have a good connection.

thank you

and i hope that this works out for the best

see, as i see it, i went through the same thing with the boyfriend that i have right now.

it just took time for him to come out and say what he liked me to do with out me asking him. i just tried a virity of things until he kept telling me if it did anything to him or not and most of the time you can tell.

if you want to try some funky new things, fondle his leg or rub his stomach. the thing that turns my guy on the most is me sucking on his fingure, i dont know if this is true or not but kissing my way from his ear to his neck does a lil too. also try nibbling on his ear or sucking on his neck. i wonder what a lap dance would do also!

also massages may do something also.