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    getting someone to love me

    in Relationship Advice

    Posted

    Sorry, but i have to disagree with gemini. I personally am always falling for the shy ones, as a lot of girls do. I'd say only 50 or 60 percent of girls fall for the outgoing guys. Sorry, a little off the subject :scatter:

    So anyway, girls usually dont like guys who cant act like themselves. If you're a gentleman, be one. At least she knows who you really are. Cause really, you want her to love you for who you are, not who you can be if you really try. My best advice is be yourself. The rest should fall into place. I wish you the best of luck!

    ~kyla~

    its a poem, sort of

    in Topics

    Posted

    Get me away from here

    Away from this place

    These problems

    These fears

    These doors always closed

    These windows always open

    For people to eavesdrop

    On my so-called life

    But what they hear

    Is not really me

    I'm living in someone else's existence

    Forced to hide behind

    A masquerade

    Day after day after day

    I'm so young

    And already I question

    Who am I?

    Everything that was once so strong

    Everything I once held onto

    Just vanished

    Get me away from here

    Away from these questions

    And these tears

    And these people who don't even

    Understand or care

    Just let me go

     

     

    ---This is for anyone who has ever felt this way. Please don't judge. Just try to understand.---

     

    ~kyla~

    I miss her so much!

    in Healing After Break Up or Divorce

    Posted

    hey, I'm so sorry about what happened with you and your girlfriend. from what it sounds like, you were very very close.

    I dont really know what to say, but i think i can relate to what your girfriend is going through, actually.

    I had been dating this great guy for over seven months, and i really loved him, but our relationship just got a little boring. I just wanted a break. I still loved him and everything, and i know he loved me. i wanted to take a little break, and when i told him, he did absolutely the wrong thing. he took it the wrong way and nearly made me get back together with him. he talked about committing suicide and tried to do all these things to get me back. I finally made the mistake of getting back together with him after a couple of days. we broke up two weeks later, but my point is, whatever you do, don't pressure her to get back together with you. she may feel trapped, as i did, and resist coming back at all. just give her some time. that is really all you can do at this time. I hope my little speech helped you some. Good luck!

    ~kyla~

    sexual abuse stalker

    in Abuse and Violence

    Posted

    My friend (who is 13) recently told me that last year she was involved in a relationship with a 16 yr old guy. the guy made her think that he was also 13 and told her a lot of things about him that were not true. The relationship was going okay (as it could be), until he started to hit her. He wasn't seriously hurting her physically, but he would just slap her when she did something he didn't like. He intimidated her into doing things with him that she didn't want to do. She didn't have to do them, but she didn't resist them enough. One time he got her to give him a blow job. They finally broke up and he moved away, and they haven't kept in touch. Recently he has been trying to contact her and since his mom is friends with her mom, he might visit and stay at their house for a weekend. My friend is really worried about this, because he is acting like a stalker, and she doesn't ever want to see him again.

    Does what he did count as sexual abuse, if she went along with it? What can I do for my friend to let her know that I am heere for her and what can I say to her?

    Thanks, you guys are so helpful!

    ~kyla~ :smilecolros:

    I'M SOOOO BOGGLED!!!!!

    in Dating Advice

    Posted

    i'm pretty sure that he likes you, but to me he just sounds creepy. my advice is :

    if you like him- stay away from him

    if you don't like him- stay away from him

     

    he just sounds like the kind of guy that would be a stalker.

    ~kyla~

     

    p.s. being overweight does not make you any less attractive.

    Unknown problem of mine...

    in Relationship Advice

    Posted

    hey,

    i'm so sorry about the problems you've been having. have you talked to your boyfriend about his flirting? if you haven't, you really need to. if he is looking at other women and flirting with them, and then "forgetting" to tell them that he has a girlfriend, then maybe he isn't ready to be involved in a relationship so serious. what he is doing is completely unfair to you, and you need to make that clear to him.

    Whatever you do, don't try to change your looks or your body for him. if you are going to do it, do it only for yourself, and do it safely. please don't resort to dangerous eating habits. a healthy diet and moderate exercise are all you personally need to stay healthy, considering that you already sound to be in pretty good shape. don't change yourself for anyone but you. stay true to yourself.

     

     

    wishing you the best of luck with your boyfriend!

    ~kyla~

    my friends attempts of suicide

    in Suicide & Self-Harm

    Posted

    my friend has tried to commit suicide twice. she was recently admitted into a mental hospital. i don't know what to say to her, now. she hurt me so badly, and i just don't understand how she could do this to herself. she's been taking drugs. i'm absolutely sure of it. does anyone have any stories about friends like mine?

    ~kyla~

    Does he like me? Maybe, maybe not...

    in Dating Advice

    Posted

    There's this guy that I have liked for the longest time. I think he might like me, but I want to be a little more sure before "putting the moves on him ".

    I think I need a couple of guys to help me with this one!

     

    a) He smiles at me all the time, and since I commented that he has cute dimples, he seems to smile even more! (I can't believe I told him he had cute dimples...)

    b) he's friends with my brother, so he knocks on the door to see if he's home or not. Whenever I answer he seems to get a little nervous

    c) I went out with his best friend for a couple of weeks (big mistake ) my friend was talking to him about it and asked him if that bothered him at all. He just sighed, and my friend told me that he sounded a little jealous!! (I don't know if she was overreacting or not, though)

    d) he usually stands up for me when his brother teases me. aww! (ahem. sorry.)

     

    but there are days when he doesn't seem all that interested. that's why I'm not sure if he really likes me as a friend or a girlfriend. hmmm...

     

    so guys, in your professional opinion, what do you think? does he like me?

     

    thanks so much, I really appreciate it!

     

    ~kyla~

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