babygirl1

I absolutley agree with this post. She is evidently not ready to be with anyone. She needs time to "mature" and understand that you don't just run out and sleep with someone else when things don't feel like it's flowing as smoothly as you'd like. People who live like that simply lack integrity, lack respect for themselves and lack respect for the person they are involved with.

lol....I could have sworn it popped up with a current date when I first signed in!!! thanks for the update.....guess it was my browser, but that was WEIRD!

I AGREE 100% .....Why do they have the right to eat, sleep, drink, laugh and be happy while they've intentionally made someone else life a living HELL? I have watched my sister go through one of the worst heart break and betrayal which landed her in a mental institution and I REFUSE to EVER let anyone violate me like that and just be at ease, only the thought of prison would stop me from taking it to the extreme and if I wasn't a mother, NOT even prison could deter me, I would feel vindicated even behind bars and this I know from my inner core. I worry not about Karma or God because I no longer believe in either. I do not believe there is a God who cares about human suffering, he sits by and watch you "if he exist".....allow these evil beings to enter your life and toy with you to see how much you can sustain.

I like your honesty in your thoughts and feelings. In this country people make you feel awful about taking revenge when "revenge" is going on EVERYWHERE around us, especially in our legal system. Thanks for not making this guy feel like he was abnormal for feeling the way he feels. It puzzles me as to why people don't just break up with someone they no longer want to be with and THEN go find someone else, instead of LYING & CHEATING with such ease.

So after what you had already done, do you think it truly matters whether or not you spent the rest of your life not giving a fu.. about her?...You already showed that you didn't. PLEASE!

Why would you want to seek revenge on her new guy??????????????? For the life of me that is senseless. The person who wronged you is the person who made a promise to you and it was NOT that guy. Stop the diversion and face what really happened.

You have some interesting points, but do remember that if someone treated you badly and left you, whether or not you put on a smile or your life has improved by a 1000 folds, it makes no difference to them----it only makes "YOU" feel better because you know how far you've come to make it to that point where you can see them and smile etc. It's more so your perception of self and the situation that's making you feel as though you've impacted them either way.

Not everyone believe in Karma! There are some people who believe in realism. The one thing that is real is that we only know for sure what is concrete and solidly proven. Waiting around hoping for Karma or some divine intervention or that someone else will hurt that person the way they hurt you is pointless. ALL is fair in love and war. Innocent people will get hurt in the process, ...as long as the intended target got what he/she deserve it shouldn't matter how that affect their new partner etc. Jerk NEED to know they have offended or hurt someone, but better yet, they need to feel some kind of pain or humiliation to see what it feels like if the shoe was on the other foot. You probably got what you earned and you know it

Why do people ALWAYS seem to go on and on about being the bigger better person when someone mention revenge? huh....Are judges in the supreme court NOT mature? From ancient history revenge have been a part of ALL societal function, utilized among the classiest people one can ever imagine. Are you saying it's OK for persons to wrong others and go on as if nothing happened? Why don't we just open ALL the prison doors around the world since revenge is so wrong?....Let me tell you one thing, emotional WOUNDING outweigh any physical pain that any criminal could have inflicted on their victim that cause them to be behind bars today, yet Majority of people underestimate emotional damage that's been inflicted on someone. REVENGE is a mature act, there's NOTHING coward about it, neither does it lack integrity. Part of the pain one feels after they've been hurt is the fact that they were unable to avenge the situation by carrying out whatever act they feel would ease their pain. Society is made up of mostly hypocrites!!! Revenge is wrong for weak minded people only.