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try to talk to her in a nice way then tell her that you have some things that's been buggin you lately that there are changes that's going on and that you don't understand the way she's treating you. Tell her that things between the two of you were never been the same since she started her job... Be honest about the way you feel whenever she's hanging out with her friends... (if she aks a permission from you that she's going out with her friends then that's fine... but if she didn't let u know that she's out... THEN something's wrong.... absolutely wrong!!) Ask her what improvements/suggestions she wants in your relationship in order to work it out......tell her that you NEED TO KNOW coz your her BOYFRIEND...

You know what poltergeist, it's much better to be more honest than trying to shut things down.. You should tell her personally about your concerns and etc... I think she'll appreciate you more because your proving it to her that your serious with her.....