Knowme77

From the male point of view, I have the same problem...going too deep and hitting the cervix (from all positions). If you haven't already tried it...try having him enter you, then you can lay down completely on your stomach with your legs together. This will limit the distance he can enter, and will most likely be just right for you (hitting your g-spot and slightly massaging your cervix). And it should totally drive him crazy...it should be tight and having his balls hit your butt in this position should drive him crazy.

orgasmictofu, Have you ever spent any time gently massaging your cervix? You have to go slow and gentle at first, and may take a good deal of time (15 to 45 min), but you can exprience a mind blowing "internal" orgasm you'll never forget. At least this is how my partner describes it. After the initial uncomfortable, slightly hurtful feeling subsides, the cervix and the area all around become extremely sensitive and the orgasm builds from deeper inside...a clitoral orgasm can be described as "external" in comparson. If your cervix is located too far in for your finger or your partners' finger or penis, you may need a "tool"...try to duplicate a finger so you can swirl around the cervix, as you need. Just like the clitoris, you'll need to give your cervix a break by swirling around it or going back to the front 3 inches of your vagina, and then return (this frequency is up to you, and you will figure it out). Sorry if this is tmi, but this a little known orgasm type that women should experience. I only know from the reaction and feedback I see, hear, and feel from my partner...it must be incredible!

mimi20...just my opinion but I believe you are completely normal. Any woman who doesn't explore and enjoy herself (may not be abnormal), but is missing out. Also, secure men tend to enjoy the fact that their partner knows themselves as well as you do. As for the number of orgasms you reach in a single occasion with yourself (from my experience in assisting in this), is totally up to you. Given a momentary break, 10 seconds to 2 minutes (varies), you can start all over and give yourself many orgasms and may produce multiple orgasms within the individual orgasms. Have fun...I don't have to tell you to "enjoy"...