steph

thanks so much ive taken all your advice under great consideration. thanks a million 0X

Oh you guys are just great!!! So quick too!!! It made alot of sense what you said about Tina and Lurch. I really thought about that. Even though, if you guys understood where I lived it would be different. We live in DC, where theres like a thousand million girls and guys. And on top of that he is really good looking and alot of girls I have asked in the neighborhood have said things like "no he is stuck up, my girl tried, but....." and things like that. He said he doesnt want any of the locals because he knows how these chicks are. so that shows me he wont settle for just anyone. But I dont know why he would want a damned baby so soon.

I feel so weird. I met a guy about three weeks ago. We have gone out and gotten real close. Like we meet all the time after work and hang out and go to sleep together and we feel real good with eachother. but now that we are getting serious, he's already asked me to have his baby, and we've only been this close about a week today. last thursday was the first time we spent the night together and lastnight he asked me would I have his kids. Not like a futuristic thing, like "when are you going to have my kids"..................... he means now. He even introduced me to his friends and family as, "This is my future baby's mother and wife." I thought he was just being funny or joking, but he means it-......... in a serious way. I was like are you nuts, he just said no, he wants me to be the mother of his kids. Like he wants to make sure NOW that I dont go anywhere. I do really have feelings for him, like we could definatley be something. But he seems like a big kid always hanging out with his friends all over the hood, but he's always calling me letting me know how much he is thinking about me. He doesnt even seem like he is ready to get married or anything, none of the less myself who just moved on my own and working to be a lawyer, and him, a wild little thug stuck in his ways, why does he want this so soon? What is his deal and why does he wanna get me knocked up so soon. By the way, Iam 18 and he is 26. No I really do have feelings for him, but 3 weeks isnt long enough to determine if you want to have anyones kids. But he has asked me about 3 times now.

matter of fact thats why he said he wants to have a family, he wants us to get married and buy a house. let me repeat, 3 weeks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! what did I do? I dont know, but he does mean everything.

I feel so weird. I met a guy about three weeks ago. We have gone out and gotten real close. Like we meet all the time after work and hang out and go to sleep together and we feel real good with eachother. but now that we are getting serious, he's already asked me to have his baby, and we've only been this close about a week today. last thursday was the first time we spent the night together and lastnight he asked me would I have his kids. Not like a futuristic thing, like "when are you going to have my kids"..................... he means now. He even introduced me to his friends and family as, "This is my future baby's mother and wife." I thought he was just being funny or joking, but he means it-......... in a serious way. I was like are you nuts, he just said no, he wants me to be the mother of his kids. Like he wants to make sure NOW that I dont go anywhere. I do really have feelings for him, like we could definatley be something. But he seems like a big kid always hanging out with his friends all over the hood, but he's always calling me letting me know how much he is thinking about me. He doesnt even seem like he is ready to get married or anything, none of the less myself who just moved on my own and working to be a lawyer, and him, a wild little thug stuck in his ways, why does he want this so soon? What is his deal and why does he wanna get me knocked up so soon. By the way, Iam 18 and he is 26. No I really do have feelings for him, but 3 weeks isnt long enough to determine if you want to have anyones kids. But he has asked me about 3 times now.