I need someones help, I have been with this guy for 3 yrs and 9 mo. He enrolled in the military 2 yrs ago. We were getting along until about 3 or 4 months ago when I started to be insecure about him and myself. I would always bitch at him because he will go out with his boys and get drunk... I have been to his base and there is really nothing to do, so thats his excuse to do that all the time, go to clubs and stuff, so im to a point that i cant take it anymore obviously he wants go out and have fun and not ready to settle down even if we've been dating for so long... Im not ready to settle down either, in fact, I want to go out and do a lot of stuff... but he gets mad when I even mention that I want to go out and have fun when i leave my house becuase he is already done many things and since i have never been out of my house and still living at home I dont think he is fair. We have been fighting and he stresses me out too much. I loved him very much, but now, is like...I dont feel the same anymore and cant seem to actually let him know in the best way possible. he comes home this thursday, which is tomorrow and im getting nervous... I dont want to spoiled his visit here so What do I do? I know honesty first, at all times... but I am very confused but sure I dont want to be his girlfriend anymore.... help me please....
