lancslad

Hey, Im 21 and she's 26 - that's never been a problem though. For the last 5 months I was the only one with the feelings I think. I talk to her about work but try not to discuss our relationship as I get really mad with her, in the end we decided to have a break, that was for about 2 weeks, again we saw each other in work, cant help that. After that we decided to call it a day and her feelings hadn't changed against me, I didn't want to break up at all I was going to try everything to make this work, she saw it different. Thanks

Thanks for your post psu11 and Scotcha. I am going to try and put myself first for a change and lets hope this helps with my situation. At the end of the day I want to love someone who loves me the same back. Let's hope there is someone out there for little me!! Thanks again

Thanks for the advice, I will take that on board I have started going to the gym and I have also got back into my running, I went last night I that helped. I will try my best to stay off the booze during the week, don't know about weekends though. Thank you again.

Hey all, I split up from my girlfriend about 10 days ago, we had been seeing each other for 14 months and we had just grown apart in the last 4 months, so we decided to call it a day. My problem is that when I can at home and nothing to do I starting thinking about her and it's driving me mad, for the last 7 days I have been in the pub every night to take my mind of things. The worst thing is.............I work with her aswell, it's the last time this happens, I don't work in the same office but the same building, so I find it hard that way too - I am looking for another job though!! Can anyone give me any advice as this is driving me up the wall and all I want to do is forget her, the biggest thing i'm dreading is that if she starts seeing someone else. I have been going out with my mates a bit too which does help. Thanks

Thanks for your reply Beec I will try these points and see how I get on. Hopefully with me not seeing her at all now apart from at work she will also realise (hopefully) how much I mean to her. See how things go, hope to god it works!!! Thanks again

thanks for your replies, so your saying the best thing that I could do now is once we have had a short break from eachother, spending a little time apart, is to start doing fun things together? Do you think couples that have a break from eachother can really works things out later on down the line, I am only talking maximum of 2 weeks? Thanks

Hi All, I have been in a relationship now for over a year and my girlfriend and we have been drifting apart now for about 3 months, we both love each other. We see each other all the time as we both work at the same firm and we see each other at least 3 nights during the week, and at weekends. There is no excitment anymore in the relationship and I want to get that back, before all this I was having the time of my life with her, we always got on and never argued. We have decided to have time apart for a while just so we can have time alone. Can anyone give me any advice here as what to do next as I want this relationship to work out. Thanks for any advice Lancslad