TheGirlInTheOtherRoom

yeah - it's an ad posting on "yahoo personals" as in their dating service. i mean - i totally understand if he had it from before we started dating - i actually took all of mine down in November (again - we met in October). but the thing that was biting at me was the "active within 24 hours" thing. i REALLY want to ask him about it - but I guess I'm just scared of the "privacy" issue and I wouldn't want him to think i was "LOOKING" / snooping - ya know?

Ok, so I've been dating this absolutely amazing guy for three months now - we ARE in a "relationship" and he refers to us as a "couple" - although he has an aversion to the word "girlfriend" but he knows I call him my boyfriend and he's ok with that. Quick little background - we met in October at a club. He's everything I've wanted for a long time and HE'S the one who's always texting me - HE'S the one who always asks me, "you comin' over tonight?" (in the past 2 weeks, since Christmas - I've spent the night 9 out of 14 days over there). He ALWAYS has dinner made for me. He pays for everything. When we go out he holds my hand. Kisses me in public - everything is GREAT. I got very sick on New years when I was out with my best friend and when I quit texting him - he realized something was wrong and he called her when he couldn't get ahold of me to make sure I was ok. He went all out for me at Christmas time and is comfortable telling me all about his family / friends / work, etc...he really doesn't hide anything. Except...well - one thing that I came accross last night. So - I know that he USED to do the online dating thing - as have I done in my past - and that's not a big deal...however - I was playing around with his yahoo profile (he gave me his yahoo name to IM him) and came accross the fact that he still has a yahoo Personal Ad up. And what really irks me is the fact that it says, "active within 24 hours"...if it had SAID "3 months" or even "1 or 2 months" i wouldn't be making this an issue. Thing is - should I just forget about it? Or bring it up to him? yes, it is bothering me that it's there. I know he can't be a paying member because he's always complaining about never having enough $$ to do things - pay bills, etc...so he'd NEVER be "wasting" money on something like that - but it still irks me. And, yes - I personally have "trust issues" only because of things that have happened to me in the past. He's not GIVEN me ANY reason what-so-ever NOT to trust him...but neither did the guys in my past either...not until the "bomb" dropped so to say. Believe me, i WANT to trust him but I know that will only come with more time. So would you guys ask him about the yahoo ad? or not? part of me feels as if it's "snooping" even though it's a PUBLIC website and he DID give me his yahoo mail addy/im name...