I'm new here and really need some advice. Here is a brief history of my relationship drama...
-- 3 year relationship ended March 06. He kissed another girl in cambodia while vactioning. This was after knowing I was carrying his baby (1month).
-- Came back. Made love to me and then 2 days later confessed to hooking up with this girl. Said he was unhappy and sorry for staying in the relationship, but that this girl made him happy.
-- No longer wanted to be with me. Just be "friends". Messed around with me once. We had sex and he told me that it didn't mean anything, that we are not together. Text me dirty messages and ask me out to eat. But just as friends. Yeah okay. He went out and messed with other girls and partied. Still don't understand why he wouldn't want to try to work things out with me.
-- Went to one doctor visit..only because I invited him. He told me he doesn't want to be with me, but will help me out.
-- Just recently found out that he went back to cambodia for another month long trip and came back engaged or married to this 19 year old chick. Just so she can eventually come over to the U.S. He told me he no longer has feelings for me and can't understand why I just can't move on.
-- He didn't call me for check on me and now that I'm like 12 days away from my due date he texts me to say that he wants to be there for the birth of "his kid".
I never responded to his texts. Should I feel quilty for not wanting him there. He makes me sick. I can't stand him. I just wish he would worry about his new wife and have babies with her and just leave "us" alone. He doesn't communicate well with me and I never get a straight answer as to what role other than providing money for me and the baby. He says stuff like if you can't take care of him. I will. Please help. There is so much to this story. There is no words to describe how I'm feeling. Hurt, Abandoned, Confused. I don't even feel like he is a daddy. Just a sperm donor. Am I being selfish? I don't know how I'm gonna deal with seeing him, and knowing that he doesn't look at me the same way. It's like he's a totally different person and how am I supposed to move on. How could he marry some girl he barely knows and not look back on "us". How do I deal?