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well i dont know of a percentage but i do know that a few of my friends dont like doing it it just depends on the girl

well i usually leave him notes saying that i love him but i guess i should do more of what i want him to do maybe hell like it and want to do it for me =)

i have told him what i want but i also feel like he should be creative and come up with something that he wants to do for me(ive told him that too) i guess its just not for him

sorry that was for DN but for lovely8466 I guess youre right, it isnt THAT important to me that i would leave him but i figured i would give this a try thank you

i dont know if you are understanding me, i said that i didnt mind him doing that besides it was just an example, if he applied romance elsewhere thats fine too, i dont think of him as my servant and i dont want "special services" im not someone who thinks my boyfriend should bow down and do everything i say i would just like him to do something nice for me and it doesnt have to be every day or every week and he knows this because ive tole him and hes told me that he wants to but he doesnt know how, ive tried to give him hints on what and how but he hasent taken my advice should i give up?

well thats what i dont understand i feel like he thinks that im trying to change him but i dont think i am i mean im not asking him to be a different person all i want is something nice once in a while i dont think it would be hard am i being rediculous?

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 8 months, hes the best thing that ever happened to me and i love him very much. We do have a few problems but nothing that isnt normal i guess. He is a little immature and i know that we're young but i really really wish that he could be romantic, it bothers me a lot and i talk to him all the time about it but every time i bring it up he gets upset and tells me what a bad boyfriend he his and i usually have to calm him down and tell him that im not going to leave him. All i want is for him to do something spontanious or something new and romantic every now and again, for example if we are leaving his house to go somewhere instead of walking to the passenger side of the car first and opening the door for me he will run and try to beat me and jump in as fast as he can and i always laugh because i dont really mind that much but i wish he would be a little more considerate sometimes how do i get him to be romantic?