RedPenguin

What is with the sucking of the lower lip for a girl? I read some online it can be for lying and/or a sign that a girl/guy wants more of you. The reason I ask is, it's like I see it everywhere now. I used to never really see it, now it's like every time I look at a girl or something, it's like they almost all suck their bottom lip in. Not saying I am obsessed with it or something, but I just find it odd that like almost every girl I look at or see suck her bottom lip in. Is this some kind of international code? LoL. It's odd that so many girls would do it. It's not like other body language, where it's almost different with every single girl. Here is a pic, link removed I don't mean link removed

Yeah, oh I see what you guys all mean. I was just wondering, why it all seemed so different. Because it always seemed like it was an unfriendly world before and it seemed like I never was good with girls at all, then instantly it seemed like I had people being friendly with me and it seemed like girls were actually noticing me and I was like, woah, what happened? Thanks, both of your replies make sense.

Ok, as I posted before, I have OCD and ADHD, which both combined used to make me depressed, low self-esteem, self-conscious, social anixety, you get the picture. Well, I started to take Zoloft to try it out, and I have been much happier and rarely have any depression now. Now my question and curiosity is this. When I was my old self, depressed and anxious, I swear, I was more looked at funny and I never really seemed to be looked at. And if I looked at a good looking girl, it felt more like she would be like, what are you looking at? Lately, since I am happier and being a little more funny, it's like, when I go to stores and/or malls, I swear, it's like more people are looking at me. I mean it's like more girls are looking at me, when I swear before, it was like I never really got looked at. And lately it's like when I look at the same type of attractive girls, they seem to be more like, hey, what's up, damn you aren't bad. Like they don't seem to have that, who cares about him look, any more. Also people seem to be more friendlier with me, like people are willing to talk to me more, when before, it seemed like I was looked at as weird. At first I thought I was maybe just seeing things that were not there, but I was walking with someone, and even they said, man, this or that girl, was checking you out when I am more used to the opposite and not hearing someone tell me that. Can just not being depressed, social anxietic, and self-conscious, really cause that much of a difference? I mean, I haven't really changed looks wise, clothes wise, or anything like that. Why does it seem now that I am noticed way more when I walk somewhere?

Yeah, I know what you guys are saying. I will not see her for a couple of days but I was just wondering, what the heck was going on, because like I said it was just a strange thing, so I didn't understand it and was curious what you guys/girls thought about it.

Yeah that's what I thought. But I wasn't sure. I'm always nervous, how I look to girls. Though if they don't like me because of something I do, they aren't really worth it, so I don't know why I do worry. Like I worry if I look at pornography a girl might not like me especially if I know she doesn't agree with it. Like this girl I like. She is a Christian like myself, though I don't see porn as bad but I am a young teen, so u can guess why, lol. You know the little stuff. I often worry too much about the past also, it's like mistakes from the past don't leave me and I constantly worry they will come back to haunt me. Anyway, just out of curiosity, I know we already said you can't really take body language too much for granite, but I just gotta ask this one because it was truly a strange feeling. I was laughing with my one friend and ended up glancing over at her accidentally (yes, it was lol) and I saw her, and I swear we locked eyes. Now I've locked eyes with people before, but this time it felt completely different. We were both smiling and it's like we were both glued, I swear neither of us moved for like 5 seconds. And neither of us said any vocal words, but it honestly felt like we had a conversation or something, like in a way we were talking. I've never felt that when I locked eyes with someone. Even though it sounds very silly, it was like, we were saying hi, how are you doing to each other, just by looking at each other. Like I stated before, I've never felt anything like it before, it was not in my opinion just some random eye lock, defiantly something was odd about it.

Out of curiosity, though a little off topic. Are women and/or men, very specific on what the want in a man/woman? For example, when I did a questionnaire in public speaking, pretty much every one said they want a partner that can drive. Now my family isn't from a lot of money, so it's hard to buy a car and/or for me to get insurance and pay for gas for two cars, so I take the bus to school and everything. So my question is, what do guys/girls normally do if they like everything about a man/woman except like one thing? Do they still go for them or not normally?

Yeah, I know what you mean, just because there was one smile doesn't really mean anything, but it just seems like a constant thing, not just like she smiled once and that was it. It happened a couple of times and she doesn't seem to smile as much at other times or at other people, except like when we pass each other and times when we make eye contact.

Ok, in my one class, there is this one girl, who is a little more towards the shy side, but not like 100% kinda shy. I would say at least half. Now I was a little interested in her, but never gave it too much thought really, because I usually haven't had extreme luck with girls, but this one seems different, and I am curious what you guys/girls think. If I glance over at her in class, she never seems to really notice or do anything, but if I pass her in the hallway, already at least twice, she seemed to have a happy smile, and when I was in the Library, sitting in a chair, she was sitting with her friend on the computer when there seemed to be nothing to laugh at and no one else was laughing but they seemed to giggle constantly, and she seemed to look over at me occasionally. Then again, during class no real attention it seems, but then one time after class, I was laughing at something, ended up looking over at her, and it was like we "locked" eyes and she was smiling. She didn't look away or stop smiling (something I am used to with girls, lol) and it was a strange eye lock, not like a lock like when you are talking to someone or you look at someone, it felt like our eyes were talking to each other or something, it was a strange feeling. I never really had that feeling from a girl before. So possible interest or making something out of nothing? Also, for another girl, and just out of curiosity, can people be attracted to someone and not even know it? Like think they don't like someone but subconsciously or something like them? Sometimes it seems like, when you are not the type someone usually likes, they seem to show interest anyway.