hello, i am new to this site but looks like i'm right where i need to be... like you, i am SUPER jealous! I am dating a man who just came out of a 15 yr marriage. i definitely consider myself prettier than his x but i am still jealous!! he has to go by there to get the kids or drop them off & it puts a knot in my stomach!! let me tell you from my female viewpoint about the penis issue....i personally don't think they are an attractive part of a man's body. i think when a woman is in love with a man, she doesn't care to see anything like that! i am totally in love with the man i'm dating! i may notice that a man looks better than another one but i don't care. i have no thoughts of them other than hmmm. you sound like you're a very dedicated person as am i...so why in the world are we still so jealous. like you, i get that awful feeling in my stomach when i know he's going to be around another woman that is the least bit attractive!! i have been told that i am pretty & he makes me feel beautiful but i can't get past feeling jealous all the time. if he goes to play golf with his friends, i'm SO afraid there will be a woman there who might be attractive. WTH?? i want to get to the point where my boyfriend is-he doesn't worry about anything-as he shouldn't! i am totally in love with him-now, if i can just see that he feels the same about me, i'll be good! so, as you can see, i'm totally jealous like you-i'm hoping this site will knock some sense into me before i push away the best thing that has ever happened to me! good luck! maybe we'll talk again soon!
