nicolek

Ok...me and my ex were getting along really good.Like I thought my feelings for him had faded because we were friends and everything was all good. Then I went to his house yesterday to watch movies and stuff..or so I thought. He started cuddling and acting like he totally liked me again. I was SO happy for some reason...then I realized I still love him ....so I started crying and he asked why and I told him I missed him and still loved him and it was hard for me to tell him because I didn't want to hear him say he didn't love me back. But he told me that and he said he didn't like me as a girlfriend at all. I don't get it..he acted like he did all night and acted how he used to. Why does he turn around and say he doesn't love me anymore? He said he hates relationships and we were only going to be friends because that's only how he feels about me...someone help! I've loved him all along and haven't even realized it and now I'm feeling the pain again. I don't know if anyone's ever been in this situation before..I need advice

Thank you so much. We get along sometimes, then we fight, I don't know it's weird. I said my good-byes to him today considering tomorrow's the last day of school and I probably won't see him until next year. It hurt's a lot still but I'm doing alright. I'm just stressed because of exams and I wish things were the way they used to be when I was with him. I guess I have to stop looking at the past and look at my future which I don't have anymore because he was in it. Well thanks everyone. Keep giving me more advice It helps a lot knowing I'm not the only one.

I know how it feels. I don't know what to do anymore. He's nice to me one day and treats me like dirt the next. As much as I'd like to stop talking to him so he doesn't hurt me, it's hard. I don't want to just leave him. I know we're over but he was my best friend and I want him to be...just not right now. I'm not over him so I'm trying not to talk to him for a while. School's over in 2 days+exams so I won't see him for a long time...I hope? I just need lots of advice I've tried everything to get him off my mind but nothing works!!!

Thanks guys. I think I'd probably be nearly over him if it wasn't for the jealousy. Everytime I feel better about him, I see him with another girl. and me and him STILL fight. I try and be his friend by saying hi once in a while if I see him in the halls or when he's online, but he just gets cranky with me. I don't know what to do anymore I miss him A LOT!

Thank you so much. I feel better knowing that someone else went through the exact same thing. It's really hard. I see him EVERYWHERE I go. And I try to find a new guy, but I'm not ready yet. When I do meet new guys, I'm not interested because I don't know it, but I'm just looking for my ex in everyone. It's really weird. I've had a hundred guys ask me out but they aren't the same I don't want anyone but him and I don't want another relationship but one like ours was. I just don't get it. Why can't I get over him? It's only been a month but I want to be over him!! It hurts to see him with other girls and having fun because no matter how hard I try, I can't have fun. I smile to hide the tears and all the pain. He just ignores me and will say hi every once in a while but he's weird now. Not the same guy I loved for sure. He's just drunk, stoned or smoking all the time. Not like he used to be AT ALL. I don't know how he changed so much. Stopped loving me and then became a total different person? I just wish we were still together and nothin ever happened

I don't understand what's going on between us. He's totally nice to me one minute and so mean the next. I hate break-ups

I know exactly how you feel. My boyfriend told me he stopped loving me one day and I was torn apart. It's only been 3 weeks and I still think of him EVERYDAY. I miss him a lot but he's been really rude to me and is making me stop loving him for who he is now, but for who he was. That's what hurts the most. He changed A LOT. I've tried being with other guys but it always leads back to thinking of him. I'd give you my advice but I'm sure you've tried everything. I find hanging out with other guys helps me a lot. Havin my girlfriends around and them talkings about their boyfriends doesn't make things any better Maybe you weren't ready to start dating again because that's how I feel. I'm waiting until I'm COMPLETELY over him to get back into a relationship. Break-up's hurt way too much for me to jump right back into one! Hope you feel better

I know thats probably what happened. I just didn't catch on. He practically despises me now. I don't get why? I tried bein nice whenever we'd talk...but no he said we won't be friends and said his good-bye forever. That wrecked me a lot. I don't get why I'm such a horrible person to him all of a sudden

Thanks for your advice everyone. It's been nearly a week. It doesn't hurt as much anymore but it still does. I think not talking to him hurt me a lot more and made it harder for me. I've been talking to him lately and I think we're going to be friends. He tells me I'm his very best friend and he just needs some time to get over me before we become really close again. We talked a lot the other day but he said we shouldn't try again right now. His reason was he didn't want a girlfriend. I kind of understand because he's just a kid but he loved me so much I didn't think he would just end things like that. Well hopefully things will get better. I've been with friends a lot to get him off my mind. Sometimes it hurts a lot, but it's pretty good! thanks!!

Last night, my boyfriend of a year and 3 months(it was our anniversary last night! broke up with me. We are really young(15) but I'm so in love with him and in so much pain and I don't know what to do. He was in love with me, until a few days ago when he started acting weird, he said he didn't love me the same and just wanted me as a friend. How could he stop loving me that fast? He said we fight too much and I was trying to fix that, but he won't listen to anything I say. He doesn't want to talk to me, he always hangs up. He had a girl there when he broke up with me and me and her aren't exactly the closest:S He told me he'd call me, he never did. I don't understand why he's like this. I haven't slept or eaten for 2 days because I knew this was coming. He was my best friend and the one person I really could trust. We basically lived at eachother's houses. He was like part of my family, and it feels like I've lost him forever. I just want the pain in my heart to go away,and the memories of him to fade. I have to see him at school everyday, and it's going to kill me inside. I don't know how I can walk around and act happy with my friends, it's way to painful. Why do I miss him so much? Why did he leave me? I'm so confused. I wrote him an e-mail telling him how I feel. He told me he'd never do this to me, and I believed him, because he loved me so much. He gave me the most love that anyone has ever givin me. No one can do anything it hurts so much. I can't stop crying or get him off my mind. Everywhere I look and everything I do reminds me of him. How do I make this stop? Why am I so jealous that he was with another girl?! Somebody help me PLEZ!!!!!!!!!