King_1062

Its not recommended to have sex whilst on a period, I have never done it but from what I have heard it can be quite messy and can cause various amounts of pain afterwards to some ladies. Don't worry though its only once a month and you can always hug and kiss.

Thanks for this I understand. I think my feelings are more feeling sorry for her because she has no one else to turn as she cannot tell her family what happened. I have decided to follow the advice given on this forum very strongly. It has hit me really hard what some people have said with regards to the sexual things, but as I have stated I am NOT that sort of person and strongly oppose any sort of behaviour which forms any part of child sexual abuse. Remember I have also been through this and don't wish to be "named" the same as my attacker. I will meet up with her though to explain everything to her and tell her that its wrong, I will try and persuade her to discuss the issue with her parents or with a Social Worker. But I will remain available on MSN for support when she needs it. Theres nothing stopping this, and I am sorry if this forum offended anyone. I don't really have anyone myself to discuss this problem with and thought it would be good or bad to hear your views. Thanks Once again!

Thanks Spugly Fuglet, I am only meeting her to sort out this situation, its just too complicated to discuss this sorta thing through a chat host. I am by far not doing what you have stated and have never and will never have any intentions to do it either. I understand this is your point of view and i do understand what you have wrote. Thanks

Hi Guys, Thanks Again for the help I have got, yeah I understand what you mean by the 14 year old thing. Thanks for the comments weather kind or evil (lol), but love takes its toll sometimes. I am meeting her on Saturday for lunch so I will discuss this further. Thanks A Million. I Love This Site! King_1062

I understand this, She is seeking help from a "so-called" counseller whom she states doesn't help whatsoever. Shes says that I understand her, but I agree with you and want to get her the help and support she needs! So where do I turn? ](*,) Thanks King_1062

Ok Sorry BellaDonna, I must have misunderstood you. She disclosed something which happened to her when she was 9 years old by another family member. This was Sexual. I hope this helps you understand, I will chat with her when I meet her next as this will be very tough to explain through an internet chat host. I have and will continue to read this thread for the advice you all have kindly offered. Many Thanks King_1062

Ok Guys, Thanks for your advice, I will consider and will have a chat with her. Further to the earlier request of disclosing the type of Abuse, I do not wish to do this because It may be invading a privacy thing. I understand where you all are coming from, but when it comes to feelings and emotions it can be very tough. Thanks Once again! King_1062

Hi Guys, Firstly I am new to this site and think its pretty cool for advice. So I hope you can not have ago at me but help me. I recently met this girl on the internet, she needed support after disclosing something that happened in her younger childhood which is similar to what I have been through. I gave her support but we both also started chatting about our hobbies and interests and found we were quite alike. Later she went onto webcam claiming that shes was ugly, But when she did I saw this stunning and attractive girl. I told her she was cute and shouldn't be worried about what others think. Anyway, we have met since then and really had a cool time together, discussing stuff and just basically chilling out. She was very mature for her age (which is 14 nearly 15), and we got very close. We both have since found ourselves falling in love with each other, and I find myself completely happy and I can see she is too. So, now we are seeing each other on a regular basis and chatting through MSN. I know in this country (England) its against the law to have a sexual relationship with this girl (under 16) and I understand this. I have told her if our companionship and feelings for each other suceeds for another few years then maybe we would consider it further. Quite frankly I don't believe Sex should play apart in these feelings, emotions etc at this time, and I am prepared to wait. Thats what Love Does. I really want people to tell me their experiences of this nature, do you think im doing the right thing? Could it work? Is it against the Law here to be in such a relationship (im not sure - I hope not)? Thanks in advance for your advice! Take Care, Regards King_1062 x