My g/f just recently broke up with me about 3 years of being together . shes 18 and im 22 . We were having money problems and we werent getting along , I lost my temper one nite and she had had enough of me ...we both said things that wish we wouldnt of said She just pretty much wanted some space .......well we went our ways and she stayed at the apartment and I stayed at my Mom and dads. I was really having a hard time trying to stay away from her ..i kept showing up at the apartment , making things worse . Well i come to find out shes been hanging out with the nieghbor guy ( Which he just had broke up with his G/F too ) almost everyday , i questioned her if anything was going on with her and the neighbor guy ...she kept telling me no , i believed her . But just had a feeling something would happen...she would get drunk and they would end up sleeping with eachother . well not even 3 days after breaking up . she moved in with the guy...moved all her stuff in his apartment.....she said she couldnt afford her apartment by herself . I didnt deal with this well at all , i was very angery , hurt , sleepless . but i didnt manage to get threw the week without stirring up anymore dust ...but i stll did see her . well the next week i had called her and i was crying and told her i was hurting bad.....well she said she needed to talk to me about something and she came over that nite and told me that she had got drunks and had sex with the nieghbor guy ( which is a 32 old toothless bum ) . I took it alright at first , then i asked detail on how it happen and that hurt even more. well she ended up staying at my moms with me that nite , and we had the best sex ever . After that we got back together . iwas living back up at the apartment and things were good for about a two weeks . i had brought up that things just dont feel the same as they used to be . i told her that her having sex with that guy still haunts me , even know i did forgive her because we werent going out . Not even a week and half went by , we broke up again . I think she is very confused about herself and what she wants.....she loves me very much and i love her very much . but we dont know for sure if were meant to be or not ? she wants to do things for herself and doesnt really wanna be tied down . But at the same time we dont wanna lose eachother. I havent seen her for a week and half .....we talked once on the phone ...but only for a minute................what should i do ? should i just give her her space and maybe she'll come to me ? or just let her go ? i need some kinda advice
