MacGyverRI

Starving yourself will make you retain anything that you eat.

You need carbs. (short term fuel), high protein foods (tuna/eggs) and lots of fiber along w/ a decent workout like you already do now.

Popcorn (Hot air popped) w/ no butter and just some salt or cajun seasoning is a great fiber source and makes you feel full.

Red Queen hasn´t been banned for boob exposure in her profile picture!

 

I don´t even have any boobs, so there should be no problem... LOL

 

You have boobs, you just think if they were bigger it would be better, it isn't true!

And honestly I´m affraid the moderators kick my butt out of here for turning ENA into a peep show LOL

I believe "Peep shows" have nude pics....

post the unedited pic above (w/ face) in the "post a pic" thread

She posted that she didn't see him but may see him tonight,

Ok, so now it's official: Baby Carrot is a BEAUTIFUL, SEXY, FASHION-SETTING GODDESS!!! Wow, I think another pic is called for.

I'll 2nd that motion and vote her into the ENA swimsuit calendar!

Wait, we need a swimsuit pic now......

 

I am not sure what you meant by no one is perfect - if you meant to imply that I believe only perfect people can be in a relationship that is not my point at all.

 

 

People do go through different phases - in certain phases they are not available for a healthy relationship and in others, they are. If she wants to take this on as her "project" that's great but it should not be with the expectation that he is available for a healthy relationship.

Everyone has faults, being shy due to an abusive parent can be overcome easily when in the real world. If he's out of the house it will be even easier.

"I" don't think this will be a project, he just needs a signal to move ahead and that's stemming from the parents abuse. People tend to balance ea. other out in a relationship, it should work out well. I'm probably the most Alpha male type you would ever meet but can also have my shy times.

"I don't think it is the job of a boyfriend or a girlfriend to boost the others' self-confidence"

That will happen by itself, most guys go into macho mode when dating someone.

there is also nothing about age here and I'm guessing both are very young, probably H.S. or close to it.

That's a very nice picture, I'll add the face, since I remembered it, from the other thread and honestly say there's nothing wrong w/ how you look and if guys aren't looking?? they need some help!

take a shower with her, wash ea other and dry ea. other off together.

How can an orifice be cute, I just don't get it.

If you were a guy you would probably think the same thing! Many women think the same way about a guys penis.

"4) I tend to watch hardcore porn on the internet usually teen stuff but whatever i can find generally."

You may be associating "teen stuff" w/ good? sex, stop watching that and watch some porn w/ women who are older and/or your age w/ the wife and start acting out some of the scenes w/ your wife to spice it up.

Dance lessons are a poor place to find a boyfriend, becaue 80% of the students are females. I remember when I took salsa lessons.

Salsa and Tango are very hard for men to learn because we don't pickup "syncopation"/"musicality" (flowing the dance to the music) too easy at 1st.

Try Swing or Hustle since more beginner guys are into those dances. Experienced dancers move up to Salsa/Tango.

I'm not 11" but sometimes have this same problem due to thickness w/ women who have never had children.

Foreplay is essential!

He needs to put it in a little (1-2"and then don't move and you will get stretched a bit and be somewhat more comfortable, (constant kissing while this is going on helps a lot) he will feel you stretch a bit then push just a little more and stop again. after 4" or so you will be at that same level no matter how much more he puts inside. You will get used to it after a few times.

Perhaps I'm wrong by comparing his "love" for my vagina, with my "love" for his penis. Don't get me wrong, I love his penis, but not nearly as much I think, as he loves my vagina.

Ok, that was funny...

When you both start having conversations w/ the sex organs you may want to consider some therapy!

None of them were worth a crap though.

I tried it when it first came out, but eDisharmony thinks 400 miles away is local....

try link removed ,it's free and tons of people are on it.

-dance classes (ballroom, latin and ceroc were all fun) though I found that people were friendly but curiously awkward.

Everyone is awkward at 1st when taking dance lessons but that makes it more fun since you're laughing with ea. other.

MacGyverRI,

 

Good guess, I am 28. I really like your suggestions.

You actually understand my side of things instead of just pointing fingers at me for cheating.

I'm usually neutral in perspective w/ answers and pointed out the major issues that caused the breakup.

You have many problems to work on and he needs to get a tad more caring in bed (the diff. between making love and just getting his rocks off) along with listening which most guys including me "were" guilty of when we were young but got wiser w/ age.

If you want to salvage the relationship, you need to see IF he will be more caring in bed since no girl wants to be used (most guys are guilty of this) and if he will actually listen and work through the issues rather than just get mad or blame it on something else.

It sounds like the problem is that you are never happy with what you already have. You have a boyfriend, you cheated on him, and now you want a new boyfriend ??? What kind of man can you expect to date someone who cheated on thier previous boyfriend ?? No man wants someone who is going to cheat on them !!!

I think you missed these parts;

"I was unhappy with him for quite some time but chose to accept it, because I did not know better. He never wanted to go out, did not respect my opinions, raised his voice at me and made no effort to please me sexually. He said that he loved me and wanted to get married."

I'm guessing she's young,

I found dance classes to be very good for meeting people (I do Swing, but Salsa/Hustle/Tango are very popular also) since you not only have close contact but actually get to talk to ea. other and that breaks the ice nicely w/ the shy types (I'm not shy).

Knowing where you are would help w/ any local hot spots.

What if I try to see him on New Year's Eve and plant one on him at midnight?

that would be very safe (good excuse) and a perfect time.

I was surprised to learn my boyfriend once dated someone just for her looks.

I saw your pic in the pic thread, so someone w/ better "looks" is something you don't have much to worry about in your own thread.

"hey mac long time no see."

I've been on, you haven't!

She just needs to kiss him to let him know it's ok to ask her out, he's afraid of the friends thing maybe going bad if he makes the 1st move.

Something tells me that you are not going to relax without help.

So here is my suggestion:

 

1) Drink some (maybe a lot) of wine and do not share much, if at all, with your husband.

 

2) Make your husband apply a lubricant on his love-tool.

 

3) Lie down, stare at the ceiling and count to ten. (If husband isn't a virgin he might not have finished yet at ten. )

 

4) Repeat on five occasions.

 

Problem solved!

also add some foreplay with him touching/caressing your vagina and then putting a finger inside you w/ some lubricant on it. "KY Jelly" (brand name) makes a good one that is water based.

repeat the foreplay every time....

I'm guessing she's very very young and mom or friends never had a talk with her.

You need to just walk away, it's going to hurt but try to get on with your life and put her in the past.