Sorry for the long post guys........here goes
Well, first off I've NEVER been able to tell if a guy likes me, or if he's flirting with me. I need obvious signs, i dont pick up on the little things. So I recently started a new job, and am somewhat interested in this one guy that I work with. He's good looking, funny, all of those things. And I would like to think he thinks the same, but I'm not quite sure. We're both really sarcastic towards eachother, in a joking way of course. He's asked about the usual ie: hobbies, movies, stuff like that, we always seem to find something to talk about. He called me hun one time, but that might of just slipped. He winks at me while having conversations, and overall he SEEMS friendly. Now this is what confuses me.......
In the past week or so he's said these to me: you're special, you're one of a kind, quite the character. Now i take those as negative, but my friends seem to think they're a good thing. (I'm a little insecure, I know) And it's a little on and off with him. He's really sarcastic, and funny, then he's nice, then he's sort of quiet, then he's sarcastic, then he's sort of stand off-ish.
I feel like there's something there, but it might just be me hoping there is.
Not quite sure what to do, I mean I'm interested, but not enough to make a move, without knowing for sure what he thinks. Is there anything I can do, or say to get a better idea of what he thinks, without being to straight forward. I have confidence, but not enough to just come out ask him what he thinks. Are there any obvious signs that i can look for.......I'm so bad at this whole flirting thing!
