kimmypoo0214

So just a little update to my last post...for those of you who didnt read it I'll fill you in quickly. I've been dating a guy who lives in another city but is moving to mine this weekend. We've been seeing each other for 1 month and a half (visiting each other and emailing, etc.) I went to see him last weekend and his roommate called me by another girls name so i was asking what i should do. So what I said to him last night on the phone was "I;ve kinda gotten the impression that you're seeing other people and I just want to make sure we're on the same page" To which he replied "No, I'm not seeing other people but I went on a date with someone" and that was it...I said "Okay I just wanted to make sure we;re on the same page" and then he let me go by saying he'd call me on Friday or Sat. to let me know when exactly he'll be getting into town. I';ve got to admit I'm really confused now...what do you guys think? Is he playing games with me?

Thanks, for replying so quickly! No we havent discussed exclusivity as of yet and I would like to know if she just got me confused with a friend or another girl he's seeing but how do i ask him without making it seem like i'm cornering him or pressuring for us to be exclusive? (which i'm not trying to do) Maybe just a casual email mentioning it made me feel uncomfortable and whether it was just an honest mistake or not.

So I've been seeing this guy for about a month and a half now but he lives about four hours away. He's moving to my hometown this weekend for work and what not...yay...So he's come here twice to visit me and I went to his town this past weekend to see him.I got there on Friday night and his roommate came home and introduced herself and said "are you michelle?" (my name is kim btw) So i said no and didnt think much of it but now am wondering...hmm is there a michelle? at first i thought shes just bad with names but not too sure anymore bc on his msn there are two groups...one with me and two other ppl (one of them named michelle) and another group with the rest of his contacts . I just dont want to get hurt because in the past year thats all that seems to be happening to me. I'm not sure what to do here...should i confront him and just ask if hes seeing anyone else?...i just cant stop wondering...anyone with any similar experiences or any ideas how to confront him about this? Should i wait til i see him in person or maybe write him a quick email? I was really caught off guard by this which kinda put me on the defensive the whole weekend. Wish I had asked him while i was there but i didnt want to ruin the weekend that i'd been planning for so long. Any advice or opinions would be greatly appreciated. P.S I wasnt snooping in his msn..he showed me something that she wrote to him..just general chit chat but anyways he was just trying to give an example of how he hates when people write back hours later....so i saw the name was michelle which made me even more curious so when he left his msn open (i didnt touch it..it was just there) i took a quick glance to see who was in a separate group and saw her name.