i kno this hasnt really got much to do with jealousy but i really need help. me and my boyfriend are both in the last yer of high school and are approaching our gcse exams in just over a week. over the last couple of weeks my boyfriend has been skiving a lot of school and spending time with his friends. im worried because we are so close to our exams and hes planning to skive a lot of next week too. when he skives he smokes and drinks and he knows that i dont agree with that. hes not that intelligent and isn predicted very good grades and says that there is no point coming to school when hes going to fail anyway. hes mates are a real bad influence but i dont want him thinking i am controlling him if i aproach him about this. has any1 got any suggestions about what i could do?