i kno this hasnt really got much to do with jealousy but i really need help. me and my boyfriend are both in the last yer of high school and are approaching our gcse exams in just over a week. over the last couple of weeks my boyfriend has been skiving a lot of school and spending time with his friends. im worried because we are so close to our exams and hes planning to skive a lot of next week too. when he skives he smokes and drinks and he knows that i dont agree with that. hes not that intelligent and isn predicted very good grades and says that there is no point coming to school when hes going to fail anyway. hes mates are a real bad influence but i dont want him thinking i am controlling him if i aproach him about this. has any1 got any suggestions about what i could do?

iv got no idea what to do and this is tearing me up...i cry myslef to sleep and i dont think i shud feel that way...im only 15!!! i really need help

thanks so much for all your comments...do you think there is anything i can say to him to help him realise...i dont want him to think im controlling him...i just dont want to loose him

iv been with my boyfriend for nearly a year now...we argue sometimes but other then that our relationship is great...but lately i have become so jealous that its killin me...my boyfriend has started to talk to other girls which find him really attractive...im worried that he will find them attractive too...most of the girls he talks to now are quite desperate...they talk dirty to him and this frustrates me...i trust him but its the girls i dont trust...i dont kno what to do...when i talk to him about it he gets annoyed and tells me that they're just mates and that he doesnt want any of them when hes got me...i still get really jealous and i dont kno what to do...its all i think about now...i love him...someone plz help