Thismakesmemad

What about diapers is so hot??? I'm not gonna lie, this is ridiculous.. No offense meant..

Update, after i broke up with her shes been saying things like -- "I'm so sorry, I was just ignoring the problem, I was hoping it would go away" "I get it now, I was wicked cold and friend like unintentionally, I'm so sad" "Please I don't want you to leave me" This was over last few days, what do you make of it?

Well, guys after seeing what you had to say, and thinking, I ended up breaking up with her over the phone.. Not how I wanted to end it, but my temper went.. I told her how I knew the guy wanted to go to the movies with her she said "No he doesn't", then I told her how I knew, then when she realized I knew she was lying, she turned it around into a trust issue, and stuff.. I told her not to talk to me anymore.. This was more then breaking up, this was me walking away from my second bad habit.

She wasn't away for two months, she hasn't been physical with me for 2 1/2 months to be more precise..

I tried this many many times, she always turns it around, and somehow in her mind believes that I AM the culprit, because to her there is no problem, so when I present it to her, it looks like I am the jerk... I just can't take it anymore.

but thats just it, I HAVE told her I am extremly unhappy, in laymans terms. She goes, "I understand how crappy I have been lately" So I will go "It's okay your not being 'crappy' blah blah" and ill be nice... Then nothing changes... Ooooh, see what I just saw? She will apologize and I will be nice for awhile...Hrmmmm.. I mean I am nice in general until these thoughts become unbearable..

Yes, I had smoked throughout the majority of the relationship.. To be honest I will tell you what happened, when I was smoking I was extremly dumb, I didn't realize it until about a month after I stopped, because I became very political, my intelligence soured, I started public speaking.. I spend most of my type researching and learning on several topics. I try to explain it to her, but she is constantly throwing her opinions at me, but they are really childish opinions, so I have been trying to help her see things in a different perspective alot, we get in fights because of this.. But, I just can't be with someone that cannot grow with me intellectually. That's another problem of mine..

CharLit, She has been under enormous amounts of stress lately.

Alright, it was 3 am when I wrote that after a 7 mile walk from my girlfriends house sorry for it's lack of clarity. Okay, I have also thought about the scenario were there is something going on and she isn't telling me. I know her well, I believe this is it. I do not trust her, I don't know why, she has recently started doing things I don't think she would normally. I.E giving her phone number out to guys who ask this question "We should go to a movie sometime, what's your number?" Her response "We deffinetly should, *insert number here* We are both 17, but I concider myself the more mature one in the relationship, she still has alot of ignorant characteristics, but I don't like flaunt this or make it known, it is just an observation of mine. Also, the scenario that she is trying to get me to break up with her could be possible, but I tried and she knew were the conversation was going and started crying. Her attitude in the sense of friendship has not changed, maybe even strengthened, she is a very loving, friend. The marijuana is only related because of my attitude towards her, she's weird I think she likes * * * * * * * guys, and when I had a bad habit, I was an * * *.

Okay about 2 months ago I had a real bad habit, i smoked alot of marijuana, well basically my girlfriend knew this and I didnt know, but anyway we had sex regularly.. Then she went out of the country.. Ever since she came back the first two days she came back we had the most incredible sex.. and for the last 2 months she hasn't given me so much as a stroke, or a passionate kiss since two months ago when she got back. I haven't smoked weed in 2 months, I have been paying more attention to her, when I smoked weed I would assume less attention would of been given.. She told me "I am just not interested in having sex" I love her, and she claims to love me, but thats it, she only says she loves me other then that she treats me like a friend, snuggles and gives me pecks.. What's the deal? I can't figure it out, and what should I say, and or do about this? Please help, thank you in advance. (I've been with her for 2 years)