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1. Go out with your friends - take your mind off it

2. Find more women when you are out with your friends. Stop acting like the one you're with is the only one in the world.

3. Stop being so dam needy...

4. Stop bloody calling her too

5. You didnt make a mistake not making time for her. You made a mistake calling her 476 times

read that, and the one below it

tease her a lot

be arrogant, but when you do it, make sure its funny

just as a general rule - if a guy is hanging out with a girl, its probably that he likes her

do you like him?

you can try this: (you have to act like you have been friends your whole life, and be confident)

hey how you going? bla bla bla

look i gotta go back to my friends

*as you leave, turn* do you have email?

*get her to write it down, then while she is writing* oh, and put your phone number down there too

later on, email her so say hi, ask if she would like to go out for a chat sometime - dont fix a date or time

then later on still, call her to set up the time

I dont want to project a fake image of confidence

Why?

If you keep telling yourself you are confident, its only a matter of time until that image is represented in the way you act

Ask him out for coffee one day

touching her hair? uhhhhh awkward much, we're both only 14

Who cares if its awkward... just do it

If not, if she looks like shes staring into space (you know the look) say to her:

"Do you want to kiss me?"

if she says yes, or maybe... then go for it

if she says no,

"I didnt say you could, you just look like you have something on your mind"

Win-win situation right there

Its good to initiate with email, like you have done, and then follow it up with a phone call.

I wouldnt buy her dinner though like you asked her to do... just take her to coffee... less expensive

men express their friendship (with girls) by wanting to slam their friends into the mattress...

what honey pumpkin said all seems true, so id go by that

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Dont listen to women on this ... they dont know what they want ...

You know what you have to do - you ARE being too nice. Grow a pair son...

Dude, it is that attitude that is 'fugly' to women, not your appearance...

Of course you wont listen, because its easier to blame your appearance than to do anything about it, but you have to be confident and truly believe that you are better than the women you talk to, and it is just their luck that they happen to be talking to you.

Yes, it sucks, but it is your fault. Not your appearance. Stop being needy. Stop displaying the attitude that you are worse than other people. Dont be a wuss. Hang out with people who ARE good with women and their success will rub off onto you.

Women care way more about personality than they do looks, as hard as that is to believe...

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If/when he comes out and actually says that he likes you, be blunt and honest.

Dont worry about hurting his feelings - worrying about that will only result in you leading him on with your answer. Trust me on this, whilst it would suck for the guy firstly, it would SO beneficial for him to know that you dont like him, rather than you say something like "I dont feel like a relationship now, maybe later"

This will result in him going even crazier for you...

It may be difficult for you to be blunt and honest, but if you care about his feelings, you will be blunt and honest.

Probly something to do with the fact that you believe having a car and money is everything...

maybe comment on how she looks

Only if youre teasing her about it...

Hi is always good (goonish? what the hell???) but heloladies idea is nice one as well

never tell her how you feel about her. EVER

Just ask her out...

why are women so VAGUE!!!

why is it so hard for woman to come straight out and say what they want instead of playing all these games?

Answer that one!

Ditto that one

When you are at clubs/pubs, make it your mission to speak to everyone there. Get numbers of guys and girls who look like fun. Then go clubbing/pubbing with them.

Or take up activities you enjoy (sports etc.) and meet people that way.

As for allergies - i tried taking some anti-histemenes but that did absolutely nothing

I take a multi-vitamin and sometimes too many vitamin C (they taste too good...) every day, so that wouldnt be it...

maybe the alcohol then ... its been a big week to say the least (school finished)

Ill give the no alcohol and more sleep a shot for the next week, see how it goes.

Cheers

Whenever I get a cold (aka. runny nose) it just wont go away.

Background: I would consider myself fairly healthy. I eat well, excersise a lot and drink a lot of water. However, I sometimes dont get enough sleep, and apparently Im low on iron.

But for the last year, whenever I get a cold, it will just linger for weeks. Im in day 9 of my current one - and every day its the same. Runny nose. No coughing, sneezing or anything. Just a constant runny nose.

Does anyone know why this happens? And why it never clears up?

Ya'll just needa relax around her. Next time you see her - focus on having a good time yourself. Forget about what she is thinking, just do whatever makes you happy.

Doing this, you will realise you are in fact able to hold a conversation with her and enjoy your time together. Dont put so much dam pressure on yourself, dont treat her like a goddess either.

Treat her like a friend - bust on her for what she wears, does and says. Dont let her know how much you like her. Basically - be different from all the other guys who want her.

Be a challenge for her!!!

Good luck

'if a guy puts in effort to hang out with a girl, he likes her'

just a general rule there... but usually true

The guy is doing the same thing you guys keep telling Vicii to do... being mysterious. Two people being 'mysterious' doesnt seem like it will work.

Ask him out somwhere with your friends, bowling or something. Bowling would be better than movies cos then you can talk.

I think she's trying to make you jealous :S

^^^

If you dont like it, tease her about it. Something like:

"Wow Im so proud you have had had a few boyfriends before, but cant you think of something more relevant to talk about?"

Im sure you can think of something better...