Today i brough up the subject again and he said he needs some time...when he got home, he opened his cell phone and he let me hear his conversation with his parents without them knowing i was listening....
they are fighting him and telling him he shouldnt have agreed to it and they dont seem to know they pressured him into it...
he left his home and went for a drive and he called me and he was so upset that he said he wasnt even doing this for me but for himself..it really hurt me...he said he doesnt want to get married to anyone NOW and that he feels he is to young to be dealing with this bull s**t...i explained to him that i will "leave him alone" he said what do i mean by leave him alone...i told him that i was going to let him go until he can choose his life...and i told him to be selfish and put HIMSELF first...he said he will not marry the girl and he will not want me NOW until he thinks im "not trouble making to him" ..i was getting upset that he came back to me as if nothing happened but then the phone died and i let it go...
BUT THIS IS WERE I NEED HELP!!!!!!!!!!! I TOLD HIM I NEED TO MEET HIM TOMROW AND THAT I NEEDED TO SPEAK TO HIM ABOUT ALL THIS ....
HELP ME BE STRONG AND WHAT IS A GOOD WAY NOT TO BREAK DOWN AND CRY I DONT WANT HIM TO SEE ME CRY...BECAZ EVEN THOUGH I LOVE HIM SO MUCH I DONT WANT HIM TO THINK IM DESPRATE.....
what should i sayyyyyyyyy more then that i have tried to make things better and they arint working out so well..............?