Well I've been dating this guy who I am madly in love with for about 6 weeks. I've known this guy for over 5 years and I've always told myself that this is the type of guy I'd like to be with one day.
I just got out of a long distance relationship about 6 weeks ago and I immediately started dating this new guy right away and it has been quite intense ever since then. I get to see this new guy almost every day because I work with him and he lives nearby.
This new guy isn't perfect, but something about him makes it just feel right. He's 29 and I'm 23, but he has 2 children with 2 different women and he has already been married and divorced once. None of that seems to matter to me though because he treats me great and makes me feel like the world. Sometimes though, I feel like I am his last resort and it makes me uneasy. He only lets me hang out with guys he knows because he says he doesn't trust other guys, but says he trusts me.
So he's leaving for the army in less than a week and we have been talking about getting engaged before he leaves. He's going to be gone for over a year and I know that will be really hard on me. Should we get engaged?Am I feeling love or infatuation? Please, any advice would be great.