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Take it from someone who is going through it. I was married for two months and found out we were pregnant, I am now six months along and am legally separated. Please I urge you to rethink everything. There has to be a good reason why the two of you got married, yes your thinking may be cloudy now but sit down and really think of you future and the future of you child. Trust me it may change everything for you. Remember that you both took vows, vows for life, not vows until it gets tough. Don't give up, something brought you two together you BOTH need to realize that and try and recapture it.

Thank you all for helping me with my last post. But now it gets better! My husband has informed me that he doesn't think that he wants our child and he says that we no longer have anything to talk about ever. What is going on how did I marry someone that I didn't even know could be this cruel. Does anyone know how I can get his rights as a parent terminated? This way he can't just come and go out of my childs life. I just don't understand how he wanted to get married and have children just as much as I did, so we got married, got pregnant, and I am now 6 months along and he has changed his mind. Please any advice?

He has agreed to counseling but has only gone once and if I try to talk to him about any of this he gets mad and screams at me. He wants to be able to call and talk to me like we are just friends and that there is no baby and like there was never a marriage. Thanks for you advise.

My husband and I were married in May of 2005. That's right we are still newlyweds. We got pregnant in July and in October he wanted a divorce. He lost a child 5 years ago (she was a premie). I have filed for divorce but I am unsure if I can go through with it. He has agreed to give me sole custudy of the baby but I feel like my life is over. He insists that there is no one else, he tells me that I don't know how to love a man, yet we were together for three years and he never once conplained. I have tried to get him to give it a chance to see what happens if we both try to fix things and he has no interest in that. He is mean and hurtful even though the one doctors appt. he went with me to he heard the Dr. say that I needed a stressfree pregnancy because of my high blood pressure. Two days later he told me how unhappy he was. I have told him that if he can't be there for me now how is he going to be there for our child and he has no answer for me. He doesn't want anything to do with the pregnancy but he want to be able to see the baby whenever he wants. Someone please help what do I do I still love hime very much and he tells me that he loves me and the baby, how can he and leave at the same time?