Ok, so there is a girl who I've been becoming really good friends with over the past few months. She's shown signs that she likes me, and I like her too though I haven't shown any (well I don't think I have....if I have they were not intentional). But you see, whenever I see her, it's always with our circle of friends. I'm social around everyone, but when I'm alone with her (like when she's waiting with me when my ride is late), I am not so social. I mean, I have no idea what to talk about with her. We like the same music, so sometimes we talk about that...but that's just getting old.
I have somewhat of a similar dilemma to someone else that posted in the Attraction/Flirting forum I think, but basically that person mentioned that a girl likes him for someone he doesn't think he is.
That's somewhat my dilemma as well. I mean, I want to get involved with her but I'm afraid she doesn't really know the "real" me......I'm social, but I'm not. I'm only social around people......I am really quiet around small groups of people. Not because I'm shy (I've surpassed this years ago).....but because I don't know what to bring up for conversation.
If anyone could help me out on this, I'd greatly appreciate it. This is actually one of the reasons I'm not making my move yet, because I can't talk to her when I'm alone with her. Well sometimes I can, but only when a topic of conversation actually comes up. Coming up with that is the hard part. I'm afraid that once we start going out she'll just realize how boring I am. I'm not even funny either. As of this moment, she is a really good friend of mine.....I don't really want to kill that image by having her think of how "blind" she was.
