cinna16

OK its a weird world out there.....especially if your single. Im 17 and havent been single since I was 13, I've bin in a couple long terms and suddenly decided that I want to go it alone.....but im having a bit of trouble. I have a bet that I want to win with my friends......and for that i have to stay single for a few months until I leave for europe. But after having just one.....one nite stand on came the feelings, so I want to know how you have one nite stands with some one really hot and not have feelings for them?? Beacuse ultimately, they are only looking for a one nite stand to.........and I just hate getting hurt wen they dont talk to you the next time they see you, as if you are all that matters one minute when they chase you for a week then nothing the next time you meet in public.......so how is it supposed to work??......Its great....but it also really really sux!!

thanx guys.......Im flying out tomoz.....and I'll let u know how it goes when i get bk....but some of what u say does make alot of sense.....relating to the situation......and that really wakes me up because it basically tells me that he IS one of those ppl.....the angry steriotype.....no matter how I percieve his personality thats who he is even if i dont want to admitt it. but like I said i will let u know when i get back......but after of this I will be much more careful and less niave about the situations that arise. cheers guys ur a real eye opener and inspirational guide. cinna16 17yrs old F

well im flying out in less than a wk to see and stay with him for a month......he thinks its going to be a bad experience this time because he believes that i will lose alot of ppl that i thought were my mates......because they will b scared to talk to me. but im worried that will what we have......because i had been in a few LDR's and this is really something special.....?????? so what do u think now???? same?? hmmmm...its tricky for me.

Ummmmm.....yeah he has,a few times. the thing I find the weidest is that no one else fines him hot or attractive in his town...and he reckons its because of his past. BUT as soon as he is out of his town....they girls dont keep off him......but he keeps off them lol

Im new to this forum, but the ppl in it offer some great advice, so thought I would try one of my worries for discussion. thanx. Ok well I have been in a LDR for 7 and half months, with a totally gorgeouse guy,(like really hot!) and everything is fine APART from his temper. He has a shady past and everyone else in his town warns me about his anger issues. I have heard about him putting numerouse ppl in hospital, through being aggrssive but he swears he has changed, and he is a real softy when we are together. Along with promising to never expose me to any kind of violence done by him or anyone else. So do listen to the town gossip? or follow my heart? I know they say ppl like that dont change for anyone......but just maybe????