I have been with my g/f for over 4 years. We had problems and she said she didn't know if I was the right person for her. We have tried to work it out a few times and this last time we both said we weren't giving up. This last time I was dating a new girl and she wanted me back. I told the other girl I didn't want to see her anymore and now two weeks later my ex doesn't know what she wants again. Its killing me inside because I love her with all my heart but she tells me she doesn't know if she is ready for a relationship. She doesn't really let me hang out with her friends and she parties a lot, which I am not really into. I think they are all just friends because she has told me everything she has done in the past, so I don't think she would cheat on me.
She tells me though she doesn't want to be tied down, because I am pretty controlling. I like to be with her and get jealous when she is with other people other than me, and she doesn't want me hanging out with them. The messed up thing is I was talking to a girl bartender one night and she blew up on me for it, and I swear I wasn't going to do anything. One good thing is I am still friends with the girl I was dating in the past and could get back with her if I want to, but I love my ex and really want to be with her. I love hanging out with her, but she tells me that she feels bad when she is with me, and she feels bad when she isn't with me.
Do you guys think I should try to work it out with her, or move on? Also do you think she needs help? I think she is depressed all the time
