Hey there, let me give you the story and you give me the advice right?sounds good.
Well almost a year ago i met a girl thru friends. Being a circle of friends phone numbers and email addresses were eventually exchanged. And we have grown quite close, I don't think there has been a day when we haven't instant messaged each other, or week gone by when we haven't talked on the phone for a few hours. She has even called me her best friend, however there is a hitch.
She never wants to hang out alone. I don't know what it is. She will tell me i am bored, I will tell her well come over and watch a movie, or lets hit the mall or something. I usually get some excuse, but it is almost like she is holding it over my head like "Nah nah nah you want to do something with me, but i'm not gonna let you".
I have asked to do something and she has said she was tired, or she will tell me she going out see you later and not invite. I will than go to friend's house. A few hours later she will show up. At that point she will follow me around like a puppy dog going from room to room, as i wander and talk to people ( as if I must be her center of attention). This has happen to many times to count.
I just don't know what gives. I have approached her on the subject which usually goes no where, she likes to hide behind the excuse "We'll I'm a b@#ch deal with it" which is so far from the truth.
I could understand if we were ex's or something like that, but we are best friends when do hang out there is nothing but good times.
Any insight on this dual personality?
