ashlynn00

Hi, I am in desperate need of advice. First off, my boyfriend and I have been together 6 months when he sprung it on me that he wanted a break. We are w/ each other every night and talk every night on the phone. PLus we have a class together at the college. HE said it was not breaking up. But we're both in college right now and he feels that I deserve 100% and he's not giving 100% to himself w/ school. He also said he just needs times to figure out his feelings. He cares so much about me and he loves me but he doesn't know if its love that he wants to be w/ me the rest of his life. He says he's just scared because he's never had a girlfriend be4 me, and so he doesnt know how to deal w/ his feelings. I am really scared. I don't want this to end, I really care about him and he would do anything for me. BUt all of my friends in the past have "taken breaks" and it resulted in break-up. He kept reassuring me it was not breaking up, just a few weeks to get his thoughts together to figure out what he wanted. He also told me that there was no other girl and he was not using this as an opportunity to shack up w/ other girls. He just needs time by himself to think. I have never had an ex ask for a break, so I don't know what to expect or what to think. Although, I guess I should prepare myself for the worst? Please help me with any advice you have out there!!! The next 3 weeks will be sleepless, stressfull, and non- hungry!