edinburghguy

Thanks Vern, much appreciated. I have had a few different views on this issue, from other forums, people saying its my fault for being paranoid and also saying we should split up. I just dont know what to say to her, I know if I say 'See last night, you where a bit weird with me looking at your phone' she will no doubt fall out with me. Same with the internet thing as well. I dont want to spoil everything, its just this weird things happening that makes me think. And you are right, it is bothering me and its all I think about! Argh!

Been in a relationship with my GF for 5 months now. Over the past month or so I have noticed a few things that are really sticking in my mind and are driving me crazy... She has a membership to a site called faceparty which is an online community for people to chat/meet, see pictures of each other, primarily for member of the opposite sex to meet. She has this profile and uses it alot, most days. It does state she is in a relationship on it, but still she never talks about it, or mentions it and she is always on it. She falls out with me if I ask about it, or just ask if she gets many messages. I am getting so paraniod she is flirting with guys online. Also her MSN has at least 25 guys on it which she chats to. I just keep thinking what she is chatting to them for. Last night she came to stay, and she has a new mobile phone. So I asked to see it, just to have a wee look, its a nice phone! She more or less grabbed the phone off me and wouldnt let me have a good look at it. From what I saw, I seen a few texts from guys and a few calls also. I dont know what to do. I want to trust her, but I feel like I need HER to tell me everything is ok and that she chats to friends etc...just the hiding of the phone has made me even more paranoid. Thanks E