I personally think honesty is the root of all relationships. But I've learned a little something from my past relationships. You have to be vicious in the beginning. Show the side of your personality that you only want to show. Being mysterious keeps them wandering and interested. It's vicious, but it works.
I know that it's very well easier said than done. Simply because I've known that for a little while, and was completely unable to do it in my most recent relationship.
I was WAY too open, and told her EVERYTHING I felt (or almost), and it scared the crap out of her. (Currently still friends, trying to work it out on my side)
