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Of course my parents are worried about my attendance, English is not their first language so anything regarding attendance is difficult to discuss (I'm not fluent in my native language either), and they work frequently. Not really sure what to discuss with teachers, never been close and rarely spoken to any of them. I'm planning on sending an email to my physics teacher before showing up and catching up on any possible assignments I can complete remotely.

Lately, I've been frequently skipping classes, it's gotten to the point where I haven't attended my HS physics class for 3 months. I've been intermittently skipping English for 2 weeks and it's gotten to the point where the teacher reached out with concerns. At the same time, I hate having attention drawn to me and I don't want others thinking there's something wrong with me. I just attended my English class for the first time in two weeks and the teacher loudly asked where I've been and whether or not I had family issues. Fortunately, my grades haven't been impacted much(still managing to pass the classes, with A's but I have a C in physics) but the thought of stepping into a classroom that I haven't attended for three months is frightening considering I certainly don't have an assigned place to sit, a group, and most of the how are labs and group projects. I don't have a justifiable reason for skipping regarding illness, disabilities, or family issues, rather I didn't have any friends witch lead to frequently led to being ignored or doing most of the work for labs(it's not necessarily anyone else's fault/most of the kids were nice), a combination of stress, laziness and anxiety and frequently missing the bus for the 25-minute commute. My physics teacher isn't nearly strict and is a complete angel, she recently had a baby and could've taken a maternity leave but decided to stay and teach the class, I feel like I'm taking advantage of her kindness and don't want to reach out(i also don't know what to say considering lack of justifiable reasoning). The first time I skipped her class was to catch up on assignments and it snowballed. I feel so ashamed of myself most of the other students taking the classes are high-achieving hard workers, and I feel like a lazy fraud skipping under the pretense of a mental illness.

My two 17-year-old sisters consistently and routinely never flush the toilet. I've asked them numerous times in a friendly and joking tone to give a courtesy flush. Its gotten to the point where I'm convinced this is a quirky form of psychological warfare designed as a way to piss me off. Almost every day I have flushed the toilet between 1-3 times for them for as long as I remember. How do I get them to stop??? Am I too uptight about this??

So recently I've met this guy off an aonymous chatting website and exchanged socials. He started off by saying something really questionable and sexist and mentioned he was racist. We ended up arguing, roasting, and talking for 2 hours before exchanging socials. Turns out he's actually a decent human being who really passionate about music, and we have a lot in common. We've been talking regularly however ive lied about my age and said I was 18(actually just turned 17) and name (he is 19). Throughout the beginning of our conversations, he made jokes about sex and dating(ex: girls who play guitars are hot), which I wasn't sure was a joke or serious.( Im not comfortable with being in a relationship but was looking for online friends) We also live very close to each other (17-minute drive), and live in a pretty liberal area. So he's not actually sexist or racist, but that was part of the humor. I enjoy having someone with similar interests to talk to but im unsure of this friendship because of those various aspects above age*, not looking for a relationship*, and massive red flag introduction. I don't want to lead anyone on, and made it pretty clear i wasn't looking for anything. What should I do? extra note: not sure if this is is important but hes also autistic/couldn't tell but he mentioned it, and we've been playing online games together