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I think it is from past resentment that I am still carrying on at the moment. I think it's just because her last ex told me to basically leave my own home every 1 weekend of the month so that they can spend quality time. I think it's just a lot of other things involved that makes me feel this this way. But I do want to talk to her but every time I talk to her she forgets everything

I think it is from past resentment that I am still carrying on at the moment. I think it's just because her last ex told me to basically leave my own home every 1 weekend of the month so that they can spend quality time. I think it's just a lot of other things involved that makes me feel this this way. But I do want to talk to her but every time I talk to her she forgets everything

Thank you! I am planning to move back to my mums house for a year so I can start saving and stuff again. but the thing is, her boyfriend is telling me that they had decided to keep the baby and they are planning to get married etc. but my friend she has not yet mentioned anything to me at all, and being secretive? im not sure if it's because we all don't really like her and her boyfriend together because he doesn't really have the best reputation as he got another girl pregnant couple of months before her and he is struggling financially himself . I do want to move out but haven't had the opportunity to talk to her as it seems like almost she's avoiding me. And she also has told me herself that she's going to keep the baby. can someone help if I should just find a house first and then tell her after? Or tell her now that I am in the process of finding a new place? (As I also need to move to a new place with my mom - a bigger space etc)

My friend (28F) and I (28F) have been friends for more than 7 years and roommates for about 2 years. We've encountered issues while living together, primarily due to her emotional and physical dependence. I've raised concerns about the unequal distribution of household chores and her clinginess, especially when she's single or in a new relationship. Whilst living together I did 98% of the cooking and she not contributed in terms of cooking at all. And if we were to clean, we would have to clean together which created a lot of mental stress for me. She exhibits signs of anxious attachment and often turns to me or her other friends for support. However, when she's in a relationship, she becomes overly dependent on her partner. Despite her insecurities, she recently became pregnant after only 2 months with her current boyfriend, with whom she's had conflicts due to her insecurities and immature behavior. Her current boyfriend now has only started his labour job 2 weeks ago when he was unemployed for more than 1 year. She struggles with communication, often avoiding criticism and resorting to her phone during difficult conversations. This behavior is concerning, particularly considering her pregnancy. While I've assured her of my support, I worry about her ability to care for the baby given her current struggles with self-care and communication with her boyfriend. Additionally, she tends to prioritize her relationship over her other responsibilities, including caring for her dog, which often falls to me. I feel responsible for her dog's well-being and have taken on most of the responsibility for caring for him in recent weeks. Last night, during their argument around midnight, she became insecure and began verbally attacking him. He eventually left without notice, perhaps needing space, and returned to his own place. Realizing he was gone, she frantically called him numerous times and even drove to his house at 4 am, insisting he come back home. This behavior, including calling him repeatedly, occurred while she is pregnant, adding to the complexity of the situation. I want to approach her about my concerns without causing defensiveness, but I'm unsure how to ensure she's making the best decision regarding her pregnancy. I have advised her I will support whatever decision she makes. However, I don't know if she's making this decision due to her age. As she had countless of times where she would solo drink and cry because she is almost 30 and is not married yet. I think that she just doesn't fully know how to look after herself and their way of planning right now, doesn't even seem like it's for the baby as they are already planning to get married which the boyfriend had to remortgage his moms home (which his mother is old) to pay for her ring and their wedding.

I currently moved out with my best friend and it has been about 2 months. She has a boyfriend which comes over pretty frequently and does not pay any rent. Also, my boyfriend comes over only the days where my room mates boyfriend comes so I don't make my room mate feel uncomfortable. I consider myself as a pretty considerate person, I've been mainly doing all the cooking and cleaning. also, when I feel like I should give them space, I go to my room and just do my own thing. All the furnitures here are pretty much mine from my old place, but despite that I still try to ensure they are comfortable and cater to their needs. But yesterday, my room mates boyfriend randomly mentioned Out of no where and was like "hey I had a great idea! What do you feel about taking turns every month one weekend where I go out so that we can all have some quality time" I just felt quiet disrespected because first of all he don't live here nor does he contribute anything towards the house. But when my boyfriend tried to talk to my room mates boyfriend, he was being very defensive saying like it's not my problem that she takes it so personal (because I went to my room because I was upset). am I being dramatic?

We just recently moved in to a new apartment with my best friend (both girls). We came home around 9.30pm after dinner and there are 4 elevators. when we got off our floor this other guy got off another elevator at the same time (who also lives on the same floor). We were walking behind him and he started to subtly looking at us like side eyeing to see what we look like. There was also a window on our floor and he stared to stare at the window to see our reflection. Then he started to walk very very slowly and he was already at the front of his house but did not enter and kept side eyeing to kind of look at what unit number we live in and me and my friend both rushed into the house and we both had that gut feeling that it was so creepy. but not sure if we are just being paranoid? Also any advice on what to do in this situation when he hasn't done anything extreme for us to even report?

Hi I was dating this guy back when we were both 19 years old and we are now both 26 years old. I was his first ever girlfriend, dated over a year. We broke up because I was so immature at the time, and I was two timing (cheated on him) which I am not proud of and have definitely learnt from my mistakes. It broke his heart a lot as he told one of my best friend that I was his first love and thought I was the one for him but he is very much traumatised from this experience. After we broke up around like 21 years old at the time, we were going back and forth on and off. He would constantly drunk call me and vice Versa and when we meet we can just literally talk about anything for hours. He would tell me that I'm the only person who knows him better than him. After we broke up 1-2 years after, he had a girlfriend which they have now broke up. However, whilst he had a girlfriend at the time he would still call me and drunk message me at times saying that he can't stop thinking about me and that if I never cheated on him we would still be together. Fast forward, I got into a new relationship (a very toxic one) dated him for about 3 years and have not spoken to my ex (the ex that I am referring to my question) for the past 3 years. And out of no where he requested to follow me on instagram which is very weird as he is a very shy person and never makes the first move. A week before he followed me, he asked one of our mutual friend if I still live at my old pace etc. i accepted his request and initiated the conversation and he just said that he is sorry for popping out of no where, as he just wanted to talk about work related question (which I believe that was an excuse). However, after a week after he drunk messaged me again and then we stopped talking and I initiated the conversation again if he wanted to hang out and now he hasn't even see my message over a week (which most likely he read the previews). I've also heard recently that after a week of when he followed me - he actually got fired from his workplace because he was not performing. I'm so confused as to what he is thinking. Like why would he need to follow me after 3 years of not talking/seeing nothing? also, I am unsure if he not really being responsive now because he got fired and potentially lost his confidence? I'm not going to be reaching out to him anymore that's for sure. But I just feel like there's no closure for some reason. I still think about him ever since the day we broke up, even when I'm in a new relationship. I genuinely thought he was my soul mate the moment I met him. Please help! Or any advice of how to handle this situation moving forward? i definitely do want to rekindle this relationship! Thank you!!