I have a friend who is married to an alcoholic. He has made promises of changing, but there has been little/no effort. He hasn't been able to keep a job, so she is stressed financially. She told me that she caught him cheating (later she said it was an inappropriate friendship). She has a child (I will call Suzy) from a previous relationship who is repeatedly sent to other people's houses whenever he relapses. When he drinks, he always is asking, "where is Suzy?" That concerns me. And now Suzy's father is giving up his rights, so her husband can adopt her. I have always thought that her husband was mean to Suzy and did not allow her to be a kid, but now I am worried. My friend's father was/is an alcoholic, and her parents are divorced, so I thought that her childhood would play a role in her decision making. I want to say something; however, some of my information/details came from a mutual friend, and I don't want to cause any problems. All three of us have been friends for about 20 years. Do I try to talk to her or do I keep out of it?
