Hi, I know this post is a bit old but I was trying to find some answers around the web cos today I woke up with the same "problem". Hope you're doing better now.
My boyfriend right now is away working in another city. He's from there but actually planning to live in mine. We've been dating since 6 months, right now 2-1/2 months away, and looking to meet again in 2 or 3 months, let's see what covid19 says about it. All has been fine but all of the sudden he started to follow these ***ty accounts. The reason why I notice it is because there are profiles recommendations that say he's actually following them, and the follows are recent. I wouldn't call it "stalking". At some point you're gonna start notice this behavior which I don't think is bad but, in my case, and after knowing he doesn't use to do this things, is weird. Specially because of the distance, I don't want to think he's starting to loose interest.
I wouldn't give it much importance because they are only "models", you know? But hey, I could send him some pics if he feels alone. I am also pretty and interesting. And there is where you feel not insecure but, a little insulted... It is hard to talk about it cos sounds silly, but if there is a good relationship, shouldn't matter... Instead, ask him to spice things up without talking about those accounts...
I know your case is or was a bit different from mine in some ways. And I hope you are feeling better now.
xx
